Hi bob!
you have my respect for taking those big steps!
here’s what i’d probably start with:
instant shine + IO / IH
a feel good factor from IS is always welcomed and IO / IH for the ice breakers or connection.
well the above combi isn’t for sex appeal but rather on the social aspects but i’m guessing it could be a good start for you to just go out and enjoy yourself first. i’ve used this combo quite a lot and i don’t see why it can not be as good if not better than most of the sexual mixes. when you have a nice conversation rolling along, it can lead to a world of opportunities. trust and bonding is what i feel to be most important!
great intro for the instant line frm p51 