So one of the most common things I see when it comes to pheromone shoppers is the old “will this make my ex-girlfriend like me again” shopper. The short answer is almost invariably no and they shouldn’t be used that way but I do want to share an interesting story about me re-uniting with an exgirlfriend that HATES my guts.
For starters let me preface this by saying this girl has every reason to never talk to me again. I was constantly breaking up with her, was basically a deadbeat boyfriend for the 2 years I was with her, was really really mean to her during times when she needed me to be there… basically we hadn’t talked for 4 months and with good reason.
After a long series of emails and random encounters (she saw me with a 10 which always helps) she agreed to have a late dinner with me in neutral territory just to catch up. I wore some “Instant Honesty” for the exchange and immediately promised never to wear that stuff around her again (the horrible shit that girls was saying about me, WOW… just wow). she’s one of those girls that blisteringly smart and knows just where your buttons are.
But being the glutton for punishment that I am I decided to keep meeting with her (I do after all have a lot of feelings for her and she is quite beautiful). Only I opted to skip the IH and use A314 and Instant Openness instead, thinking I want her talking, I just want her to keep it light though.
Without being too graphic suffice to say that, that’s the combo that makes her tick. For the past week or so every time I’ve seen her and been wearing that combo she’s been madly in love with me. Complaining about how she “just can’t help herself around me”.
Now I wish this is where the story ends but it doesn’t. My car was broken into early this past weekend and after breaking my lock, cracking my windshield by knocking off the rear view and stealing my car stereo they also made off with my bookbag which happened to have my cell phone, my A314 and my IO in it.
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I was thinking, “hey you’ve been making passionate love to this girl all week, don’t sweat not having them on you at this point”… boy was I wrong to think that though. She’s still nice to me, still hung out with me but the “chemistry” that whole “I can’t control myself around you” thing was just plain gone. The whole tone and context of our interaction was different. Here I was sitting in her bedroom and it was like this important piece was missing for her… sooooo frustrating!
But I digress, I just put in an order for A314 (can’t afford the instant openness right now, really shouldn’t even be spending money on the A314 but I cant help it). Hoping it comes in ASAP so I can get this thing back on track though.
Talk about finding out the hard way just how big of an impact this stuff has on your life.
TL;DR - don’t hang out with your exgirlfriend without this stuff