I’m writing about the two times I used A314. The first time was on Wednesday 27 August 2008.
I spread one drop of A314 at the back of my neck. I went to meet my very close female friend.
We were standing at the train station. I noticed that she was standing far from me as if she was repelled by me. She also had closed body language.
I was very surprised. Usually we stand much nearer to each other, in the intimate friends distance.
The second time I used A314 was yesterday on Thursday 28 August 2008. This time I used 2 drops. It stinked big time. I used one spray of ammo but that barely covered the smell. Thus I took out my XY hugo boss cologne and sprayed on my neck and chest. I could still smell the A314 even after that. Luckily after 20 mins the smell faded.
I had a headache which lasted 5 mins after my application of the 2 drops . It’s not supposed to do that right?
I certainly haven’t had a headache myself from A314, or indeed, any of the stuff I’ve wore - IO, IG, Ishine, TUTH, IFM… but there are posts that report such effects elsewhere on the forum, I’m sure.
I am quite surprised by that odd reaction from your friend. But like you say she is very familiar with you and your natural phero-signature, so it might have been a bit weird for her, almost like you were someone else.
One thing I have noticed wearing A314 is that people tend to mirror my posture, body language, and what have you; might be a thing to watch out for.
I guess 2 drops are too much for me at the moment. I’ll use only one drop daily for the time being. My body needs some time to adjust I guess.
Actually what I’m doing is mirroring people. I read many ebooks about it. I’m going to paste some stuff I’ve read & it can help others.
Rapport creates trust, allowing you to build a psychological bridge to someone. The conversation is likely to be more positive and comfortable when two people are “in sync” with each other.
Just as we tend to like someone who shares our interests, we are also unconsciously driven to like a person when he “appears as we do.” This means that when someone makes gestures the way we do, or uses words or phrases as we do, we tend to find him likable.
Two powerful tips for establishing and building rapport are:
• Matching posture and movements: For instance, if someone has one hand in his pocket, you put your hand in yours. If he makes a gesture with his hand, after a moment and without being obvious, you casually make the same gesture.
• Matching speech: Try to match his rate of speech. If he’s speaking in a slow, relaxed tone, you do the same. If he’s speaking quickly, then you begin to speak more rapidly.
Yeah, initiating the mirroring oneself is indeed very powerful. But I often simply forget to do it LOL, what with all the other variables in a social interaction. Well, recently I couldn’t help noticing folk actually mirroring me - it’s like I cut straight to the “leading” bit and didn’t have to do the “pacing” bit. Even noticed this today at work, but that was with Ishine rather than A314.
So I guess it’s a form of unconscious flattery, folk are actually following the lead of the person with the alpha vibe, ie) the A314 wearer.
Well for mirroring to really work I believe that it should be done naturally. I will feel weird if people were to conciously do it when I am talking to them. Good examples of successful mirroring would be that when you are having a good time conversing with another and somehow in the middle of the conversation you realised that both of you are matching postures.
My guess is that mirroring will work better using ih or io. a314 gives off an alpha vibe and it may be incougruent to start tapping into someone else’s wavelength. It will be more natural for certain others to tap into yours. On the other hand, the nols give a feeling of comfort and intimacy without the status difference. Mirroring may be more natural and well accepted with them.
This new A314 capacities are really discussed…
I’m not surprised by the distance from your friend.
I think the Akuto version of A314 has too strong effects. Plus as it stinks, no doubt people keep their distance. Not because they might think you’re too important to them but just because it stinks !
The smell tends to go off and I personnaly get accustomed to it.
The only “positive” experience I had was last week-end at a wedding.
1 drop every 2 hours.
Mildly good reactions for the next 5 to 10 minutes.
And that’s the most positive…
I agree with you on the distance. totally experienced every time except when covered with TUTH.
A314 Akuto message = “Feel nice for the next 5 minutes and then keep your distance” ?
. It’s not supposed to do that right?
