Hi all,
First time posting here, I just moved to a new town (population 7000), and I have been going to the gym there regularly for about 2 weeks.
There is an atytractive brunette that works there, she is there almost every day during the week, I started small chatting with her from the first time I walked in the gym and after the first week, I asked her if she would have a beer with me sometime (this was while she was talking to 2 of her friends at the gym reception). She blushed, and agreed to give me her number.
Some small talk the next day over text messages, and a couple days later I saw her in the gym, found out when she wasn’t working, and we’re going for beer on Monday. Not the greatest day of the week to do this, I realize, but I had to travel for work over the weekend, and the alternative would have been to set a date for the weekend, and still see her every day in the gym in between. I figured it would throw me off seeing her every day before we really got to sit down in a relaxed setting, etc etc.
Anyway, a day after we set up our date, she texts me and lets me know she just broke up with her boyfriend and is kind of still heartbroken about it, she still totally wants to have a beer but she wants me to know she isn’t feeling that grat about starting a new relationship right now.
Worth noting: I am 26, she is 21. She works at a gym, so she has a lot of guys coming in and out hitting on her, but she still seemed a bit taken aback by my ‘directness’ in asking her out. I think in a small way this has spooked her a little bit.
So, im still going to have beer with her on Monday? Can anyone recommend a mixture of mones that might get her to forget this other guy and focus on a bright and refreshing future with yours truly?
P.S. I have been in this situation before with a different girl, and I ended up sleeping with her after the first date- while that was great, for some reason it RUINED everything and I was never able to shake from her head the notion that I only wanted sex. For this reason, I am a little hesistant to do anything but build rep with this girl for right now, because while I definitely want to sleep with her, I wouldn’t mind actually finding a nice girl to spend my days with in this town. (I’ll be here for 3 years, population of 7000.. yah).
I have access to pretty much every pheremone on the site, including a lot of experimental ones, so sky is the limit.. I also have a few choice colognes… Green Irish Tweed, Casual Friday, Armani Code, M7 (it makes me smell old tho).
Thanks in advance ! I will be sure and post the reuslts of your advice after I meet up with her!
EDIT: I have no idea how I posted the subject line like that, I meant to type “First date mone suggestions” . Sorry to all the people that are likely confused by the spelling massacre. =P