I’ve been using Instant Female Magic and Shine on certain occassions over the past couple of weeks, mainly in bars where I already know how certain patrons and employees regard me personally. I’ve also used Honesty and Ammo with the tester sprays I received with my order of Instant Female Magic and Shine (the testers were a nice surprise.)
My experience with Shine is that it says “Hello!” in a big way and folks that normally wouldn’t initiate a greeting will do so. Example: A female bartender who has never given me the time of day and virtually zero eye contact (she’s cute, late 20’s, and two months away from getting married) was working a cross word puzzle when I sat down. She immediately looked up, smiled and said “Hi!” We talked quite a bit and even got into personal stuff. I consider this a hit because I was surprised, which I think is going to be my primary criteria for determining “hits.” Here’s the thing: Because she is conservative and reserved I had made her my target. I did nothing differently to evoke a response from her. It just happened. I was wearing 1 spray of Instant Female Magic to the inside of each elbow, which I rub in with each wrist, dragging it down my forearms, and three shots of Shine–one to each side of my head and one full face (btw, I now wear four shots of Shine with an additional spray behind my head.)
I later went to the car and sprayed Ammo behind each ear and drug is down my neck, hung out in open air for about 20 minutes, and returned to the bar. A young couple sat down beside me with the female one bar seat away. Mid-to-late 20’s. Long story short: I had been talking to her boyfriend when, before I knew it, she took control of the conversation, literally turning her back to her boyfriend to talk to me. This kept up even when I tried to let the conversation die and the boyfriend was obviously feeling left out and was figeting. I finished my beer rather quickly and said goodbye.
Different bar (Yep, I went bar hopping that day for testing purposes.) A 19-year-old waitress who I’ve chatted with on a few occassions (great girl, outgoing, smart, very attractive and remarkably similar to a 15-year-younger version of my last girlfriend) starts repeatedly dropping by my station at the bar, cutting up, and doing what I’ll call “posturing” or “posing.” Examples: -1) Playfully pointing to a very small wet spot on the nipple area of her shirt, which I would have never noticed had she not pointed directly to it. 2) Bending over in front of me and shaking out her curly blonde hair (talk about a hair toss!) I actually laughed out loud. 3) Turning semi-sideways to me and holding an obvious modeling pose so I could take her all in. I was amused but felt a little embarassed.
Yes, I know that given the vast age difference this seems utterly ridiculous, but I absolutely know when a woman is flirting and this one absolutely was even though there’s zero chance of a romantic follow through–just game playing and a lot of fun.
Different bar and this last one was pretty amazing. Took another shot of Shine to the face and another shot of Ammo spread across the jugular about 30 minutes before I got there. An attractive bartender in her early-to-mid 40’s, who I’ve been familiar with for years, had finished her shift and was playing a video game at the bar. Beside her was a woman–a friend of hers–who is in her mid-to-late 50s. She was one bar seat away and between the bartender and me.
I was aware that they were directly down wind from me (I had a ceiling fan behind me.) The bartender glanced to see who had sat down and smiled her normal Mona Lisa smile at me, resumed her game but then leaned forward in an obvious manner so her friend didn’t block her view of me. She kept glancing down the bar at me. Her smile never faded. The woman in her 50’s also began smiling and for no apparent reason. She soon turned to me and started making conversation–a huge smile on her face. She was flirting, and the more she did, the more the bartender leaded forward so we could share a line of sight (her physical position was unnatural and exaggerated–it was all very obvious.) At one point the bartender backhanded her friend on the arm, and when I asked her friend what happened, she responded, “She just told me to shut up.”
They left about five minutes after that, and as they did, the older woman stopped by my chair a second and scratched my back before saying good bye. As the bartender passed by she smiled (actually had never stopped smiling the whole time) and said, “Good night, pretty.”
Ok guys, this is what you gotta understand: Out of the five or so years I’ve been familiar with this bartender she has NEVER EVER come even remotely close to flirting with me. As for the woman in her 50’s, I had talked with her once before and that was in a group conversation. She didn’t remember my name, and boy, was she ever thrilled when she found out that I had remembered hers. And here’s something else: I remember thinking during my previous encounter with the woman in her 50’ that she didn’t like me very much.
This last encounter of the night was so unexpected and startling that it caught me completely off guard–yes even more so than the 19-year-old because it’s not unusual for young women to flirt with me simply because they feel comfortable and secure in what they are doing. However, older women who realize it all could go somewhere are usually very careful and crafty in their approach.
Just to to give you a little more info: I’m not God’s gift to women by any means. I’m above average in looks (been told I’m handsome and about an 8 on a 10 scale.) Even though I am quite extroverted, I’ve had numerous women friends and girlfriends tell me that my personality and looks can make me seem unapproachable (I still don’t understand this.) They have also told me that I can be intimidating to other males (and I don’t get this either because I just wanna be friends with folks.)
I so much want some A314, and when supplies become available, I’m going to order that along with 2X strength Ammo.
