3 hours later, I’m officially over my sadness that my intro disappeared, so I’ll try to make this quick. I’m trying to get noticed at work and by men (me being a gay guy and whatnot). Obviously work is quite a different environment from say, the club or just being out and about.. Lots of prospects. So my question is what should I get to attract guys? I already know I’m definitely getting A314 because that apparently works miracles in the work environment.. But now I’m sort of torn between getting maybe P83, AMMO, or IH. I don’t know which is more likely to yield me more success in picking guys up. Any suggestions?
Also, if it helps, i’m 21, I work out pretty regularly and my personality is already on the lighter, fun, more outgoing side, plus I’m one of those genuinely good guys and I think that that constantly lands me in the friend zone.
This is interesting for me to post about, this post is mostly conjecture, so be warned.
I would be weary of A314, it gets respect and stand-offish vibe from men in my opinion, so it would be harder for you to know was digging you in that way without knowing them first.
Generally, any mone that gives you self effects would work on another man, in a similar fashion.
Well, I was planning to reserve A314 mainly for work and not so much hooking up as I’ve read that it’s not so great with getting guys but amazing for the work environment. I have read that something more socially oriented would probably do better for attraction. What’s your opinion on IG? Would that be a better choice instead of A314?
If you want to communicate strong, solid and capable professional values, then yes A314 is right up your street but at 21, you may need to implement it more slowly and carefully than an older guy with an established career.
For starters, your bosses might get scared for their jobs, ESP as their bosses will almost certainly notice you sooner rather than later - A314 is seldom a problem with the most senior people.
Then your colleagues might not know quite how to take you for a while - its up to you to take the lead here and show them its still the same you but better.
It might also surprise you how often a gay guy will warm to an A314 sig - generally those who go for more mature men and you will have to appreciate that a lot of the signals you send will be solid LTR types, as opposed to the younger more sociable/playful feel of IG
So many things to think about lol. Unfortunately I’m on a money crunch right now and I’ll only be able to afford 2 instants along with using my gc. So I’m thinking maybe i should hold off on A314 and/or IG until next month. And now I’m thinking that i want to try either IO or IH with TUTH and see how a night out on the town goes, lol.
Thank you both so much for your insight. I really appreciate it.
lol. Unfortunately I’m on a money crunch right now and I’ll only be able to afford 2 instants along with using my gc. So I’m thinking maybe i should hold off on A314 and/or IG until next month. And now I’m thinking that i want to try either IO or IH with TUTH and see how a night out on the town goes, lol.