Hey guys, newb here hoping this is the appropriate place to post. (Gah!) In any case, I was hoping for any real experience advice/reviews/etc.
I just got my order of instant sexiness A (the day after I ordered it, wow), and a freebie of P102. No idea what it might potentially do, but I’m excited and it smells great!
Anyway, I decided to test a couple spritzes of instant sexiness on my neck when visiting my friend (and ex) at his work during his lunch break figuring the optimum place for smells to affect others would be indoors in relatively close quarters. He has a few other guy coworkers and I was curious to see if I would get any reactions. I wasn’t expecting any of them to throw themselves at me or anything, but it didn’t seem to have a noticeable effect either. They were nice, but no more than usual. I know there are a lot of really wild reviews, but I figured that probably wasn’t the norm. I was wondering what the typical response is, if there even is one. While I am interested in figuring out the dosage or placement tricks for myself, it is a rather small bottle, so if you have any advice, I would definitely appreciate it.
IS/A can range from 3 to 5 sprays for most people.
Places that tend to heat up (except pits and groin) are you best option for application. Covering more area also helps.
I like to apply IS/A to my chest in a sweeping motion. My head (hair) and the back of the neck if my hair is up is good to.
People who know you well have preconceived notions about you and usually need a few exposures to noticeably respond.
Generally with IS/A you get more attention, stares, smiles, doubletakes, people approach more. Its easier to see it working on people you don’t know well then on someone close to you when you first start using.
Thanks so much for taking the time to write back! Unfortunately, it didn’t seem to work… D: I took your advice when going out with a bunch of girl friends the other night. Felt good, put a little makeup on and 4 sprays (neck, chest, hair, and rubbed some on my wrists) of IS/A, then head out to a fun social event with people- the majority of whom I didn’t know.
Then it got weird…
One by one, guys came along to pull each of the girls away for a dance until I was left by myself. As a person, I don’t mind, I still had a good time. But as a consumer testing a product, I was a little concerned.
The “pussy” guys get intimidated by too confident looking women (or too good looking - they’ll all think you must be 200% in a relationship already). You don’t need to look like you got no self value but try making yourself more approachable. Open body language. You can ask google for further help
Also, if you aren’t good looking then the product only helps so much. We dont know how you look and it is subjective, so I just wanted to mention the possibility
PS: If you want to increase your chances - why don’t YOU approach some guys for dance? Or just some nice banter anywhere, at any time. The product doesn’t magically turn shy guys into flirt machines.
Honestly, it sounds like your main problem here was a lack of “working the room”. Steve-o has a few posts on how he personally does it. So here’s how the problem works:
It sounds like you ladies were all together in a group. When the guys asked your friends to dance, you were probably still in proximity to each other. So your phero cloud kinda hovered with the group. It’s doubtless that the guys picked up on the pheros, but unless you were making a trail or wake to single yourself out, the guys had no way of knowing which girl was emitting the pheros. So they ventured in the general direction and made a guess. Obviously, they guessed wrong. But, bottom line, by staying cozy with your gal pals, your pheros helped them more than you.
Solution: working the room. As Steve-o describes it, you need to do at least one lap around the room. Find excuses to chat with random people for a second or two, and then move on. That way, people realize that “I smelled something specific when she approached, but it left when she walked away.” So that when they pick up on it again, they will know that it’s you and not anyone else. And be careful to not let anyone else steal your phero cloud.
Don’t worry too much about your looks. While a guy may single out a “hotter” girl based on her looks, he’ll prefer a girl who makes his engine rev.
Haha I actually think I did that without realizing it. I was designated food and drink runner for the night, so I definitely did a couple laps around the room. It was nice and crowded so I did end up literally bumping into people. Maybe I just didn’t linger long enough to leave any impressions? Although, I did put on the same amount again earlier today at a beach hangout. I definitely mingled there, so I dunno. The bottle looks like it should be good for a couple more tries, and I just got my order of IS/B to see if maybe it’d work better for me, so I’m definitely not giving up yet.
If you have any other ideas, please please don’t hesitate to tell me!
It is quite possible that IS/B is more suited to your personality than IS/A. When you wear the IS/A, does it feel like a good fit? Like, do you feel like a better (or more enhanced) version of yourself? Or does it feel almost like you are wearing a mask, or pretending to be something you’re not?
Also…another fabulous option is wearing P102 with it. P102 tends to make people look at you and acknowledge you more. Like it’s impossible to be a wallflower.
Another thought, how much did you use? You might need to play with the dosage and find your sweet spot. If you don’t use enough, it might not be noticeable at all. If you use too much, you might experience “ghosting”. That’s when others receive too much phero information, and they can’t process it. So their brain pretends you’re not there. As a general rule, when testing out any phero product, start with one spray and then add another at each different event until you’ve found a level at which you receive the desired response. Then continue until you find out how much produces ghosting, overkill, or OD. This process may take a few weeks.
I didn’t notice a personal effect or a difference between is/a or b (just tried out using 3 sprays when going out shopping) so I’m not sure. The first time (from the original post) I tried 2 sprays, then the next day I used 3 when visiting the same place and didn’t notice a difference. The night I went out with friends I used 4 and the same for earlier today at the beach. After getting home, I took a shower and went out to the mall with 3 sprays of IS/B to see if there might be a noticeable difference either in myself or people around.
3 might be a bit much to start with. You can’t treat this like perfume. Always start with 1 and then work your way up. I have seen great results with just 1 or 2.
Thank you so much for taking the time to help. I don’t have much left and I’ve tested all the tactics you’ve suggested on both is/a and b and p102. I was thinking about using the last on Comic Con next week. Lots of people, enclosed space. Figured it might be a good place to sort of go for broke. Do you have any other ideas that might help?
