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Hi all, my name is Yesie and I’m just about to turn 21 in a few days. I live in southern California. I heard about pheros a while ago and just started reading up on them more very recently. I went to culinary school and my long term goal is to have my own restaurant group and line of cook books. Now the reason I’ve been curious about pheros lately is because its a little difficult for me to speak openly with people I dont know, but I need to be more open and inviting to people as that’s part of the business I’m in.
Also I know to some people (especially others I work with but don’t converse with much) tend to feel like I’mreally bitchy because I don’t sugar coat things. However I feel like its better to tell the truth than to add confusion to the world. Now don’t get me wrong I don’t go aroundd screaming or telling people off, but when asked a question I give an honest answer. I’m the kind of person that won’t get along with someone if they’re rude to someone else, I just feel like everybody should be nice to everybody and things will go smoother. Its kindof a hippie mindset but gets me into some interesting situations from time to time. But I feel like its worth it, I’m passionate about what I believe in and I feel like to get ahead in life mutual respect and understanding is needed and I’m very direct about it.
Which I guess now leads me into my relationships with men. I tend to attract older men it doesn’t bother me because i 've always been around older people I’m a bit more mature than others my age,but I feel like they want different things like kids or marriage or a mortgage and those arn’t things I want in my life yet…atleast not until I pay off my student loans. Anyways that’s where I’m at, I’m fresh booty to this so any and all comments/advice is welcome! Thanks for reading.
Hi Yesie, welcome to the forum!
I have several suggestions that would definitely help you appear more open and inviting to others.
The first is Instant Openness, which will relax you and those around you. Everyone will be friendlier and conversation will flow more easily.
Instant Shine is a great mood-lifting product, boosting both your mood and the moods of those around you. Others will be drawn to your positive, happy glow.
Instant Honesty will add intimacy to conversations - others will feel more comfortable around you and be more likely to trust you. Instant Honesty is also great for creating and maintaining emotional bonds.
I hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions! 
Welcome to Pherotalk Yesie!,
Culinary school that’s awesome!
From reading you intro:
“I need to be more open and inviting to people as that’s part of the business I’m in”
I would suggest:
Instant Shine: this one makes you and the people around you feel good/happy. I like this one because people like to be around happy people.
Instant Honesty: This helps you to bond and connect with people. This also helps people to trust you more. I think this could be helpful in your journey to starting your business.
Instant Openness: This really helps to open people up to you. And in my experience when they do talk to you they end up talking and talking and talking. (I think you would like this because you mentioned being more open and inviting)
As far as the relationship with men I would suggest:
Instant sexiness B: this has a flirty girl vibe to it. I have the product and I have tested it (for experimentation) but I think that the ladies can tell you more about it.
Thanks for the insite. I’m excited to get started.
Welcome to pherotalk Yp!
You received some great pheromone recommendations. I understand what you mean and agree totally with your brutally honest, hippie mindset. The world needs more ppl like you.
Well, if you are going to date older men then that just the kind of things you expect. Of course, there are exceptions to those older men who want to act like teenagers but it seems to me that you are attracting the right crowd , it’s just that you want to wait for all the good stuff they want to offer.
Not expecting a mature man of a certain age to want to settle down is like expecting a 15 yr old to want to run off into the sun set with you and get married. I mean it happens but you know what I mean. 
Just like us women with age and maturity men tend to want different things.
What I suggest is you tell the guys at start what you expect and what you want if eventually they want to take it to a different level then at least you know you were honest.
Pheromones don’t control the way ppl think or behave so you can use these to attract them and reel them in but what they feel is what they feel.
Your gc was issued! 