From Nowhere to Nirvana

I have been experimenting with pheromones for several weeks now- with little result that I could tell. I am middle-aged, recently divorced, so my exposure is mostly to people at or through work. However, the scope of that is fairly vast and cuts across all ages, races, socioeconomic status, etc. So I have quite the testing ground.
Instant Sexiness has not had an effect that I could tell. Instant Honesty deepens my depression. Instant Shine I like, but I don’t notice a big difference in others’ response to me. Now, it is true that despite my current situation, which is rather bleak and frightening, and I would rather not describe because I don’t want to tap into it - I’ll tell you when it gets better, OK? - one thing I have going for me is that most people, even strangers, do tend to be extremely nice to me. I have never really understood why. I can be sort of shy. And they also tend to tell me the most amazing things…total strangers - in great detail. I have never understood that either. So I will be saving the Instant Honesty for special uses - I don’t really need it and apparently now is not the time to be honest with myself! Honesty schmonesty. I need to be telling it like I want it to be, not like it is.
I do realize I need to feel better myself, that there is probably a distress pheromone going out that undercuts even the effects of positive thinking, acting like all is well and spraying myself with pheros, so I am willing to try all of the above again, especially now that I am feeling better.
I also have several copulin products and I am not afraid to use them liberally, as much as I can cover and without smelling strange. I have used all of the above individually and together.
It has been a little discouraging, but yesterday I got my last order. Unfortunately, the MX 144 in the Instant Openness Test Pack unscrewed its lid and dumped its contents. I smeared what didn’t evaporate from the bubble wrap all over my neck and chest- not very scientific, but I wanted to salvage something. It was a good amount, I could really smell it. I used about 3 sprays of MX 134. There is something about that stuff I LOVE…the way it smells …tickles my nose and reminds me of black pepper essential oil…the way it almost instantly made me feel. And, just to be evil, about 6-8 drops of Essence of Woman, covered with vetiver oil.
WOW! I was looking in the mirror, getting ready for work, and two words popped into my head. They are not words I normally think - I don’ t think I’ve EVER thought them - and they came out of nowhere…
“SEXY B**CH!”.
Now this is very odd because I have never imagined myself that way nor did I ever want to - but under the influence of this combo, not only did I think it, it seems like a very fine thing indeed and a concept I would really like to explore further.
Definite huge hit on myself, lol, and shocking, because this is NOT what I would have expected from this combination. Or from me. I like it though.
Went to work, compliments, compliments, compliments. Somebody said I was looking quite saucy these days. Another called me Madame President. A young man I mentioned my age to in passing said nothing for a couple of minutes and then came back and said that couldn’t be possible, I was NOT! (I think he’s right - there’s been some sort of mixup or misprint on my birth certificate.) An impossibly grumpy, downright MEAN boss-man that I always seem to rub the wrong way was sweet and biddable. There were a few other things, my hair, my eyes, my outfit…this NEVER happens.
My energy level was through the roof, with no crash later in the day.
Today, I wore the same combo. More comments on my prettiness (can I get enough of those? Apparently not. It feels like some kind of vitamin P and I swear I actually look better). As I was parking my car at a meter, I had the door open and this guy walks by to the car parked behind me. He comes back, says he’s leaving and has 45 minutes left on his meter, do I want it…(I actually had a naughty thought about that comment but I was a perfect lady and simply said thank you instead).
I get on the elevator with a coworker about my age ( I am allegedly in my late forties, btw) who is always shy with me (I have seen how he looks at me in the past-but he is always very quiet..and that seems to be his general personality. I rarely hear him talk, and then only if spoken to) and he not only initiates conversation, he is quite ebullient and seems excited and animated and is asking me all these questions. Very out of character.
Do I like this? YES I DO. And how interesting, that mixing MX134 respect + cops+ openness equals=some kind of perfect pherom-aura for MOI! I have great energy again today without stimulants or crashing. (this is really notable) I still have all these really scary problems and I don’t know what is going to happen to me…but I feel better. I don’t know if it’s part of the cycle or the pheromones or both. But today I feel better, and that’s all that matters.
BTW, with this combo I can still smell all of it (except the cops, thank god) at the end of the day and the results stay “up” - it seems quite long-lasting. No sexual hits that I can discern…but once the Sexy B is on the loose, how far down the road can it be?
I hope I have similar results with the rest of my Instant Openness Pack since my MX144 is toast…what little was left leaked in my purse (which smells real good!)

What an experience! It sounds fantastic, and you made a really great post.

I hope everything works out for you, whatever is going on, and that you feel better.

You were talking about distress that doesn’t help positive thinking. There’s a post about depression and pheromones:

Not saying that you need it! But for finding the ones that are definite boosters for women. Can’t wait for my TAH to come in. And apparently Jasmin loves TAL :slight_smile:

And no – it’s never boring to hear you’re pretty :slight_smile:

Glad you had a good day, hope there’s tons more like it in the future!

Wow, great post vkat. I’m the same age and have had similar reactions to Instant Sexiness-A (meh - until I wore it with cops!), Instant Honesty (though with that one, my sensitivity to it lessened after 2-3 uses) and MX134. I love the smell of MX134 too, how it makes me feel serene and masterful, and the reactions I get. I think you might be my pheromone twin! I’ll be watching for your future reports! :wink:

(in case we really are phero-twins, you might also like Instant Female Magic, A314 and Liquid Sunshine MX138 and MX140 …)

(in case we really are phero-twins, you might also like Instant Female Magic, A314 and Liquid Sunshine MX138 and MX140 …)

I have a friend who is using A314 and it does some good stuff for her. She is drop dead beautiful and her problem is getting anybody to consider there might be something beyond the lovely exterior. People always describe her as very “sweet” (she is, but so much more) so she seems to have enough of that going on. And she is looking to get them to come out of the stun mode long enough to listen to her and to think twice about jumping in her personal space (this is not a problem that garners much sympathy but it actually is NO easier than anybody else’s stuff to deal with). I love the MX 134 so much, though, I don’t think I can ever give it up. I want a gallon size! I have the Liquid Sunshine mixes so I can try that right away, and I will think on the Instant Female Magic. I have had some hormonal hell going on along with everything else and since I now have episodes of PMS that can last for an ENTIRE MONTH, anything that would help with that would be appreciated. I am just a little worried about the effect on men, since I would like them to come hither a bit more plus I work with them all the time. Is there a way to counteract or soften the effect on them? Can I put it on a swab and just stick it up my own nose, lol? Snort it?

I forgot, I do also have the TAH. I only tried it once…nobody gave me anything and I felt weirdly submissive. Ineed to get the right combo going with that one.
I have lots of stuff! So plenty of things to experiment with for quite some time. Do you apply the Instant Sexiness directly over the cops or just wear them at the same time? I have been mixing cops with that and not noticed much.
I am also interested in mixing up effects and mixing up visual/pheromone effects, for instance, sexy pheros with very proper appearance, etc.
This is just plain fun. Endless combinations.

You can absolutely sniff the IFM! Just take big whiffs from the bottle, or dab on your upper lip. So far, I have not noticed any problems in men when I wear IFM/w.

In fact, the one pheromone that produced less positive changes in a male friend was Instant Sexiness-A. He usually flirts big time and is physically affectionate. When I wore ISex/A by itself, he sniffed my perfume (his little ritual) and then kept his distance physically and no flirting for the rest of the afternoon.

I think letting EoW dry down, then covering, is the best application method because that’s the only way the smell really becomes pleasant. But I have a little 5-ml bottle of ISex/A mixed with a couple of drops of EW that I use sometimes with better responses than the straight ISex/A. I’m still not convinced ISex/A is doing anything for me, it might all be the cops!

Fantastic Post. I havehad really good hits and vibes with MX134. I got it as a freebie and it is all just about gone :frowning: . Also, instant openness has been a “no fail” product for me. Essence of Woman I am still toying with , but this sounds like a great formula. I’m gonna try this combo too!

Well, day three of MX134, cops and Instant Openness. I also added a spray of MX135. This must be the choclotini scent? It smells like chocolate to me. Or something sweet.
A long day that should have been grueling, but somehow wasn’t. I was all over the place today…had to go through a security checkpoint, you should have seen me dumping the 10 bottles of pheros out of my purse in the car before I went in, lol. I can just see them taking them all out, oh, Instant Sexiness, Instant Honesty, MX this and that…hmmm…biological weapons?
That seemed to go very smoothly, I felt I was treated with great respect rather than the usual bored pokerface apathy bordering on suspicion. Hard to explain but it felt different.
Then the person I went to see introduced me to a staff member and went on and on about how wonderful and talented I am??? He is always nice but it was really over the top. When I left, he was standing there holding my coat to help me put it on. It’s been years since a gentleman helped me on with my coat. Make that decades. That might be more about his manners than anything about me, though.
Also, walking in the freezing cold in an urban area, I seemed to get eye contact and smiles from everyone. Most everyone even spoke, said hello. Usually people walk with their head down and eyes averted.
Again, that lasting energy buzz without edginess. Good thing, because it was a 12-hour day. Towards the end a confrontation started. This person enjoys feeling angry and slighted and wronged. He has this way of twisting around every thing you say to something to take offense about. Somehow, I was able to turn the tide and we ended on a good note.
A young lady told me my new hairdo was ADORABLE. Another compliment about the hair in the elevator from a female from another department. Oh, have I mentioned that I spray my hair with pheros? I do have a new look but I think it is being well-received way out of proportion to how it actually looks.
Again, I get this strong feeling of MUTUAL respect and comfort in my dealings with others. It doesn’t feel like power over anyone. It feels like relaxing into each other. And it is cutting across gender, race, age and perceived status. I am enjoying everyone so much more. While I am friendly, I am also usually more guarded, something I realize only now when I am not! (Hmmm…maybe the Instant Openness is playing more of a part than I realize).
Speaking of gender, despite all these cops, I am not picking up sexuality - just extreme consideration and a feeling of being appreciated as a person. Then again, these are not situations or people where that would really be appropriate, desirable or comfortable for anybody.
I’m not complaining - truly, I have more primary issues than my nonexistent love life, but I sure hope I find a phero combo that helps with that too. That’s right, I want it all. I’m about to dump a bottle of EOW on my head. Anybody male left standing is a potential mate :slight_smile: As soon as they stop gasping for air.
Tomorrow is going to be hideous, in fact, it is impossible for me to do all that I must. I wish I had some Instant Female Magic to snort, lol. I work on deadline so no possibility of shoving anything off. I have to produce. So we’ll see how it all holds up under that kind of pressure. I’ll be stuck in the office all day, and it is a very angry, negative place. Maybe I should spill some Instant Shine on my desk. No, I can’t be distracted.
So far, I repeat…this combo is perfect for me at work or for everyday socialization. Although it is a combo, the MX134 feels like the centerpiece and it is what instantly makes ME feel delicious. Very partial to the MX 135 too, although I think I should try that alone and see what the difference is. It’s pretty expensive so I need to dole that one out.
Sorry for the long posts…but it is just working that well for me. And it’s not like it all has!

Makes me wish I still had money to my name to get MX 134 :frowning:

Yet another fabulous post. And I love details, any type of hit described to the smallest point – always great.

I’ve noticed the same thing with Instant Openness. I don’t mind talking, but I never know quite what to say. But for some reason when I wear IO, it doesn’t seem to matter.

Can’t wait to hear more.

Well, yesterday was baaaaad. It started off with the coffeemaker being broken and went downhill from there. However, I believe the pheros did help take the edge off. I tried the MX204 in place of the MX134, but I felt so down I blasted a spray of MX134 in my face later. Still the cops and Instant Openness, MX145 this time since MX144 is gone.
It all culminated about 8:30 p.m., when I finally leave work, get in my car, turn it on, and the horn starts blaring, screaming…and won’t stop. I turn the car off, turn it on, drive a little way, nothing will stop the infernal blaring screech. One good thing about this is that while they always say “Where’s a cop when you need one?” this little problem brought one right away. He and the lone pedestrian left downtown at this hour pulled a fuse that shut the thing up (and my heat and radio and interior lights). I will mention that I was getting in the car before the cop shouted at me and asked my name. He forgot to run my plates and make sure I wasn’t stealing the car and setting off the alarm system, I think. Paperwork has to be done for every stop and my name is weird and I am sure he didn’t get it, plus my last name is different now that what the car is registered under, but, off I went with no more questioning. I never showed ID. Perhaps cops work on cops. Also, I was chatting with both gentlemen as they fooled with the car and stayed remarkably calm, even though having our eardrums split open was very unnerving and I was already running, “Oh my god, what do I do, how do I get this fixed, I can’t pay for it, this is my lifeline..” yadayada through my head.
I get home and discover that I CANNOT turn my headlights off. I have just enough car knowledge to know how long it takes a dealership to track down an weird electrical problem in an older car, replacing all as they go, and what that could cost. Also, that this was not a problem that could wait, since my battery wasn’t going to last long that way. And I needed to pick my daughter up in two hours. Hated to do it, but called a (married) male friend to come and save me. HE DID! Then he took me to get something to eat :slight_smile: Thank god for men like this one. This has nothing to do with pheros, though. That’s just how he is with anybody who calls for help. I should also mention that while I was waiting, instead of crying, I called up another guy I know and told him he promised me a drink, let’s do it soon. This is so unlike me, especially under stress.
(If this ever happens to you, check your fuses and the horn relay thingy. It was loose. Pushed back in, the other fuse could be returned to its place and all was well. WHEW! There’s your auto-talk advice for the day.)
This is somewhat off-topic but car trouble is the one thing that throws me into hysteria and this one was really bizarre. It’s scary when guys are standing around scratching their heads saying they’ve never heard of such a thing. I only semi-freaked.
And I did get my work done, although late, but my boss was very sweet about it although me being tardy holds up everybody else and makes things difficult. I got more compliments on my appearance throughout the day too…so it was a good bad day if that makes sense. I’ll take it. My beloved MX134 is almost gone and now sold out, I see, as it SHOULD be, which brings this blow-by blow thread to a close, I guess…but yikes! Please Androtics, make more fast or help me figure out what’s in that stuff that’s helping me!
Maybe I should start playing with the A314 sample somebody kindly slipped in my last order, even though it’s for men? Is there a way to adjust that for women? I also have the MX204, which I think is supposed to be similar…but although I feel like Instant Sexiness A was not that helpful, I believe the MX134 is based on TAL too? Maybe I need mega-TAL?

I’m copying and pasting this from anotherr thread, when I said it to Pherobeliever when she was first starting out, as I stand behind this advice 100%:

I would NOT EVER use Essence of Woman in a work environment, and I have been using it for years!

I seriously NEVER use Essence of Woman unless I really want very prominent sexual hits.

It’s not a mild animal, and it means business. It really is a beast.

To me, it’s really best kept for when you are one-to-one with a guy - seriously.

It’s just not something to incorporate into work-based mixes, although it takes things to the NEXT level of animalistic, when used in sexual mixes and that cannot be argued with.

It really does have the “Men-ripping-your-clothes-off” and sex getting VERY heavy and almost aggressive at times, effect. If you wear Essence of Woman or any strong copulin-based product, you (scientifically-proven) raise a male’s testosterone level by approx. 140% within 20 minutes of him encountering you.

That is a seriously heavy statement for your body to be making in a work setting, and if it were me, this would be a no-no.

Just something you might want to think about, but if you believe you CAN handle the messages you are sending out - go for it.

I’m a very strong, self-confident woman, as are many of the ladies here, and I honestly would never wear Essence of Woman, unless it is purely for sexual goals. I can’t stress that enough. Two drops neat to someone new to using pheromones - especially copulins, is a heck of a lot.

My Essence of Woman stays at home where I can play with it (and “The Man”) to my heart’s content, and it works brilliantly in tandem with TAH AND Instant Sexiness For Women as you can read many times over here in the women’s forum - but it basically IS a total sexual BOMB, and so you would honestly have to think really carefully about wearing it to work - ESPECIALLY neat!

I’ve even posted here a few times how I will never even wear Essence of Woman out Clubbing now, unless I am with “The Man” as the attention it garners is just too much, and is NOT something I want or need.

For work I would use MX134, IS, Instant Openness X2, a couple of sprays of TAF 5 mcg, and MAYBE some Instant Sexiness For Women Mix A - one spray possibly, as I am a Uni Head Of Department, and I really don’t want to promote anything sexual in my work environment.

We want people to succeed in their pheromonal goals, but I honestly see a woman wearing Essence of Woman, as sending out a VERY full-on message as to her intentions, and maybe for some ladies that would be okay for work, but for me, it certainly would not.

Good luck to you in your pheromone journey.

Ail :slight_smile:

Thanks for the suggestions, Ail, I will try that out too. As for the cops, you have to allow the possibility that what you’ve got going on under it all - your own natural signature and attributes-factors in. It could be you are quite a bit sexier than I to start with,or have more cops naturally because you are younger…I am probably on the backend of being perimenopausal, something I took into account before trying it..but I assure you, there hasn’t been the faintest hint of any bodice-ripping intent going on around me. In fact people have been more polite and considerate and well-mannered.
But that doesn’t mean it would be a good idea for everyone, or even for the majority of women, at any age - so I hear your warning, what works for me should be taken with a boatload of caution as it not only could, but may most probably -evoke something quite different and unpleasant for others. I should take care to point that out, but didn’t, because I am new to all this. Thank you!

my reactions to me wearing EW vary in accordance with the amount used.
i have a bottle of instant sexiness with EW in it, but i only added like 6 drops to the whole bottle.
then i have chocolatini EW with instant sexiness B mixed in for fun.
this is my " im officially looking" mix.
even looking i dont find what im looking for, but i love the idea that my options are open with a broader selection with this mix…
boy,that sounded slutty :frowning:

dying to try MX134. keep up the good posting :slight_smile:

How do you get chocolotini EOW?

It sounds like Lor got chocolatini Instant Sexiness B and added some EoW to it. Is that right, Lor?