From Tigger to Jaguar???

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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WOOHOO – CHRISTMAS IN MARCH!!! After almost a year of waiting (or so it seems, since I placed my order last Tuesday) my pheros were waiting for me when I got home tonight. No, really… SUPER kudos and thanks to everyone at Androtics for dealing with my impatience and getting these wonderful toys to me so fast!! :smiley: Here’s what I ordered:

Instant Sexiness A - 30 ml bottle
Instant Shine - 30 ml bottle
Instant Honesty - 30 ml bottle
CTTM (Mix 2) - 30 ml bottle
MX135 - 30 ml bottle
P79 @ 10mcg/spray, neroli scented - 30 ml bottle

I also have Essence of Woman. I must have gotten the new mix, because it really doesn’t smell bad at all. I was kinda scared after reading some of the older posts describing how hard it was to cover the strong smell.

These all came just in time, because my Pherone W-1 has about 1 or 2 applications left in the bottle and my Pherone W-9 about 3 or 4 days left. I’ve been upping the W-9 (cops) each day over the past week in preparation for the EoW. Just that has resulted in more male attention at work! :wink: I think I’m gonna like this experimentation phase!!!

Now, what to try first tomorrow…

Well, actually, I already sprayed one spray of 10mcg/spray P79 on my wrists & touched a wrist below my nose - wonder if I’ll have some NICE dreams? I wanted to see what it would do for me. First, I noticed the lovely smell of neroli. I’ve read about it, but don’t think I’ve smelled this particular citrus scent before. Within the first minute or two, I felt a slight tingling in the crown of my head - like in an arch from the front of one ear to the front of the other ear. Kinda pleasant. :slight_smile: I was just chilling in bed, watching a little TV (CSI-NY), trying to wind down from the day. I became aware of the feeling that my eyes were open wider than normal. I didn’t get up to look in the mirror so I don’t know if they really were - didn’t want to interrupt what I was feeling. Could have just been a feeling. After about 10 minutes or so I noticed that the people on TV looked more attractive than I remember them every looking. How wierd! I was gettin’ kinda turned on. Given - it doesn’t take to much to do that these days. :smiley: … I’ll let ya know if I have any GOOD dreams tonight.

Anyway, some of you may have seen the heading on my profile a little bit ago… “Born Again Cougar??” I just heard the term Cougar about a month ago. I’ve never gone after younger guys on purpose before, but I’m really beginning to see the benefits of such a pursuit. :roll_eyes: :smiley: Of course, I’m also interested in the more mature, loving, caring long-term relationship, but lately I’m finding guys just a little older than myself to be what my sister just today call “lazy lovers”. Not willing to spend the time seducing a woman… getting me so hot & bothered that I’d do almost anything to be sexed up at that very moment. (Enchanted April knows what I’ve deleted here :open_mouth: )
So, a hopefully soon to be good friend set me straight… “Cougars are older women dressing in a very trashy manner going after younger men. I actually REALLY REALLY dislike the term. The taint of it is nothing like what we think of with older men/younger women. A woman enjoying her sexuality with a man who is actually probably better suited to her sexual prime (our 40s), I am SO good with. Great sex is SO necessary at times.”

O.K. I don’t like the term Cougar any more after that description. Maybe a “Jaguar” - that denotes style & sophistication, power & lust. There - that’s what we are. Now we just have to get the term out there in a positive light & we’re SET, ladies!!! :smiley:

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Really glad to know that! Good luck and enjoy!:slight_smile:

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Yay! Happy to see your journal, Tigger! I agree about “Cougar.” I imagine some preadatory, over-tanned 64 year old with creased cleavage in a ruched leopard print maillot, drooling over her white-speedo-clad cabana boy from her lounge chair as he’s bent over “cleaning the pool.”

Yeah, that’s how I’ll be at that age, provided I make my millions in the meantime, but not how I see myself now at 30ish. Still, younger guys can’t help but be hot! Pre spare tire? Pre bald spot? Pre heavy responsiblity and acid reflux disease? Those are good things.

Sure, there are homely youngsters, and amazing older men. But why limit oneself outside of basic morality and legality? As long as dude can buy me an alcoholic drink at the bar, but can’t qualify for a seniors discount coffee at Mc Donalds, we’re good. :wink:

Can’t wait to see what else you have to write about! :smiley:
Kitten

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Tigger-Jag

Great post. I am all for 40 yr old women with 30yr old men. Waaaahooo. Wish my guy was younger. I have always preferred men that are much younger than me (5-10 yrs).

Lazy lovers? You got that right. They are too worried about which loafers to wear to their next meeting. “Does this tie look power enough?” “Where did I leave my bluetooth?” Booooring!
Sex is something they think about after they bring home the laptop and respond to those 50 emails they got after 7pm.

I like the term Jaguar much better than Cougar - it is more classy for some reason.

Ok. I’m gonna say it. I AM A JAGUAR!

Thank you Tigger er Jaguar

I am so excited to read what happens next! Keep me posted.

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I can’t wait to read more from you, Tigger! Welcome aboard! :slight_smile:

Kitten, you just made me laugh and then choke (when I tried to stop laughing)!

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O.K… so I think I OD’d on everything this morning :smiley: :smiley: . I’ve had sooommme wine tonight, so I have to admit that I’m not really clear on what & how much I put on this morning. I gotta start writing this stuff down! I think I put on about (7:15 am):

4-5 drops of EoW (neck, temples, wrists)
3 sprays Instant Sexi A (1 to each side of neck & 1 split btwn wrists)
2 sprays MX135 (1 to each side of neck)
1 spray Instant Shine to chest
Covered by 2 sprays Pink Sugar

It all smelled good, considering I let it dry down btwn applications. I think I smelled the chocolate from MX 135 all day, but it smelled good. My brain was kinda buzzy for a couple of hours after getting to work, but it died down.

I didn’t notice as many people in my cube today as yesterday & the day before, but we were absolutely swamped today, so that’s not surprising. (I work in a 24/7 technical call center). However, the men who did stop by were more touchy or sexually joking. :wink: I did notice that the women I normally deal with on a daily basis (some of them can be complete bitches!) were more deferential or accepting of me as the alpha female than usual. Am I seeing things!?!? This seems like too big a hit for the first time out! I did reapply one ‘to go’ spray each of MX 135, Instant Sexi A, and Pink Sugar+cops to my neck/chest/wrists about 2:30 pm.

Also, there’s this guy who started pursuing me gently a couple of days ago. Could be a combo of me increasing my cops &/or him gathering more confidence to contact me after seeing me IMing my previous partner (they’re both black, but COMPLETELY different in physical stature, personality & outlook on life). We IM’d all day today & he ended up coming over after work (I get off late, & he’s involved with other social activities after a regular 8 hour day). My previous partner (FWB - over now) started the same way - he is a friend of this guy. It really is amazing none of these guys at work know about each other & me!!! :smiley: (Except the one who’s my GWAP (Girlfriend With A Penis). & he only knows about the previous guy, not this guy.)

Anyway, before he got there, I applied 1 spray Instant Sexi A & 1 spray p79 to the chest, and 1 spray of Instant Honesty to the back of my head. We had some wine (which was the supposed reason he came over) and talked sincerely about our pets & past. Very comfortable. Honestly, I expected him to make a move. Not that I would have completely refused him (I’m at the end of my period now, though… TMI, huh?)… Anyway, it was comfortable (I did all of the playful touching) and informational. We had a good hug goodnight, & he said he’d come back over to check out the basement (which I might be able to get finished off out of this!). This one acually seems promising - more than I expected it to be. The IM messages seemed very suggestive, and his cell txt message on the way to my place asked if I was wearing anything sexy. :wink: Is this the Instant Honesty effect??? I was pleasantly surprised tonight didn’t end up in bed. I’d like it to next time, though! :stuck_out_tongue: He’s 32 & I don’t for one minute think he’ll be the lazy lover his friend (my previous) was. Still… 3 years older than the young guy, 12 years younger than the lazy lover, & 8 years younger than me (& he tought I was 35 tops)… am I finding my sweet spot??? :roll_eyes: :smiley:

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Kitten - you are HILARIOUS!!! Thank you!!!

Phernoob - welcome to the Jaguar Club. We should make it official!

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Oh, I forgot to say…
I also shared some photos of my self (never alone.. always with my sister, or niece & nephew, sister’s dog, etc.) with this new guy. But this is something I always do on my own - I don’t think the Instant Honesty has anything to do with this. I feel that, even though the guy may be attracted to who I am now & my present physique (& they’ve known me for at least 6 months to see my recent transformation), they deserve to know that I have some large scars (from the removal of a lot of extra skin after a LOT of weight loss). I just don’t want to get into things & have the guy see these scars & be completely turned off. That would SUCK!!! Am I wrong in feeling like this, everyone???

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Wow - Tigger/Jag you HAVE been working hard these last 6 months! Congrats to you!
The evening with your friend sounds really promising. Keep us posted.

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I may be wrong, but I personally would not worry about this. In fact, I would not be quite so open as to tell a man about the scars on my body and why they are there before things get physical. If it were to come up in some accidental way, I might mention that I had had some weight loss, but I think generally men do not want or need to hear about this early on in a relationship. In fact I think it could go so far as to kill some of the attraction/mystery there is about your body in his mind.

Men don’t need perfection, but they also don’t need every physical flaw pointed out to them. It might be a long shot to say “he may not notice the scars”, but unless the guy is very shallow I think it’s within the realm of possibility that the scars may not matter to him. If you let him discover them on his own, he will take note and either will or will not ask about them. I bet dollars to doughnuts he won’t obsess on them unless you make it a big deal ahead of time.

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Good advice, Ariadne! Reps for that. I’m an extremely open & honest person by nature, so that’s where this comes from. Guess I don’t have to waste my money on Instant Openness & Instant Honesty, huh?!? :slight_smile:)

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And Jaguar are GORGEOUS and SLEEK!

Another thing for is that “Cougars” has it that women in their 40s/50s are predatory towards younger men. Far be it! My younger guy is the one after ME!

Oh, and well, he’s after me again, so I’m letting him pursue. :smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

So, :stuck_out_tongue: I hate the sexist derogatory term, “Cougar.” I am way too sexy gorgeous and sleek. Jaguar. Definitely!

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It’s not for YOU, it’s for THEM, da men, those AROUND you to open up. Just apply to the BACK of you, back of neck, crown of head, for it to affect OTHERS. :smiley:

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Thanks, Enchanted April!! And I agree with you - you’re way too gorgeous and sleek to be anything but a JAGUAR!!! :smiley: Make him do some growling, too!!!

Man, I have a lot of updating to do in this journal, but… worked the night shift last night & couldn’t keep this other guy off me. He kept stopping the touching & hesitating when touching some more… but he always touched! Couldn’t seem to get enough. :roll_eyes: He really liked what I smelled like - kept huffing it.
And the other guy I last wrote about isn’t going to be anything more than a fling, but we’ll be flinging Tuesday! :open_mouth: :cool:
Meanwhile, I have to get ready for a date tonight with someone completely different. Actually, this will be the first time we’ve met face-to-face… Maybe I’ll put some Instant Honesty on the back of my neck & see how it works on him (& hopefully doesn’t on me!)…

Gotta go - I’ll write a better update later. Wish me luck, guys!!!:stuck_out_tongue:

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Oh sweetheart, they ALWAYS growl!

You are SO naughty! CLEARLY a kindred spirit. LOVE it! Fling and Flung! HAVE fun, lady!

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Oh my YES, we MUST meet in Vegas.

Hmm, maybe THAT will be where we will have a SECRET convention, n’est pas?

I’m IM you.

All the best,

April

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O.K. I have to start writing myself notes or posting as soon as I get home at night… I’m forgetting stuff already. So, having learned my lesson on Thursday, I toned it down a bit for Friday. Basically the same mix, but a spray less of each put on at about 9 p.m.

I don’t know about anyone else, but something in this mixture seems to have a “Good Hair Day” effect! I’m not kidding. I’ve had some of the best hair days since I got my ‘moan’ package!

Anywho, I was working the night shift, so the work crowd was much smaller. Be that as it may, there’s this guy who’s come over to say ‘Hi’ when our shifts overlapped before, but this is the first time I’ve worked a whole shift with him. He was in my cube A LOT that night, talking & whatnot. As my teaser post mentioned earlier, he started being a little more touchy on Friday night. … and each touch was a little more suggestive and daring. But, he kept stopping himself, like he couldn’t believe he’d done what he’d done & saying he had to try to be a good boy. LOL - I loved it! And I won’t even say what happened in the supply closet, but let’s just say I’ll always have a smile on my face in that little room. Hope nobody ever sees & asks about it! :smiley:

At one point he leaned over & started breathing in real deep at the side of my neck… and nuzzling it, of course. OH! I DO LOVE A GOOD NUZZLE!! :smiley: He said “You smell so good. What are you wearing?” Of course, I wanted him to get a big dose of everything, so I asked, “Well, what’s it smell like to you?” So he had to go back & nuzzle some more! He couldn’t put his finger on it, but said it smelled foody & yummy. Guess I’ll try going without a cover scent more often!! I know I was smelling chocolate myself all night and loved every minute of it. Problem is (well, it’s not REALLY a problem), I think there’s definitely something self-arousing in the MX135 mix. I was getting myself pretty worked up just sitting there breathing! I have trouble enough keeping myself in check sometimes, and he definitley wasn’t helping the situation that night! I told him that in an IM & he said ‘then it’s probably dangerous for us to be around each other tonight.’ I said ‘Maybe, but don’t let that stop you.’ He didn’t. :smiley: Definitely kept getting hits from this mix all night from him. They need to start selling that stuff by the gallon!! Jasmin & Michael…???

Anyway, he came back around in the morning to walk me out to my car, but I was still working on a long call & he couldn’t wait any longer. BUT… this story will continue later!

So I drag my butt home Saturday morning and crash immediately. But, I had to get up and get ready for a date I had Saturday evening. So around 5 p.m. I put on:

1 spray Instant Honesty to the back of my head
2 sprays Come Talk To Me Mix 2 one to each wrist
1 spray Instant Sexi A to the top of my head
5 sprays MX135 to each side of the neck, chest, split on wrists, & face
4-5 drops of cops to neck, chest, temples and wrists - ran fingers through hair when finished applying (I never leave the house without cops)

I had to stop and get a couple of nails fixed before the date and kept getting comments from everyone at the nail shop. And everyone addressed me by name - even people I hadn’t spoken to before and didn’t even know knew my name! That was fun and funny. Anyway, they couldn’t seem to do enough for me and the owner only charged me for the polish I bought and not the nails they fixed. That was a first!

So, then off to the date, which was at a restaurant a few stores down so I walked. There was a group of about 6 boys skateboarding around the parking lot. They were about 14 or so - the age that’s usually self absorbed, especially when in groups of their own kind. Anyway, a couple of them looked at me as I walked by and one even looked right at me and said ‘Hi’. Wow - this stuff works on the really young ones! Gotta watch that. Jaguar or not, Tiggy don’t go there!!

So I get to the restaurant and meet this guy and as he’s coming toward me I can tell he doesn’t know whether to shake my hand or give me a hug. We’d never met face to face before, you see. Well, it ended up being a hug - but that was my doing. I LOVE to touch and be touched (this theme continues with the guy mentioned above, later…) We had a great dinner and he talked a lot about himself, which was nice, because up until then he’d always wanted to know about me. Thank you, Instant Honesty! When we left the restaurant, he walked me to my car, but said he didn’t want to leave me yet and asked if I’d park over by his car so we could talk some more. What the heck - the night was going well and we were having fun. So I moved my car and we got into his car to talk some more. He even opened the door for me to get in. Now I know this is the gentlemanly thing to do, but I’m just not used to it. I’ve always opened my own doors and had no qualms about it. After a few minutes in the car, he’s like ‘Oh, here, I want to show this to you… just so you know I’m not making stuff up’ and proceeds to pull out all his formal ID to prove he is who he told me he is. Instant Honesty should be on every girls’ First Date list!! When we done talking, he walked me back to my car again and I got a BIG hug this time. Hhmmmm…

So now I’m wide awake and close to work, and my night shift guy is working again… so I went to work to finish up some stuff I didn’t get done the previous night. I logged in, but purposely didn’t tell him I was in the building. It didn’t take too long, maybe 15 minutes, and he was in my cube asking when I got there. Afraid he’d missed something already?!? He seemed enthralled by my dress (I rarely wear them, but I’m becoming more of a girly girl, so…), or rather, what he could see under it. :roll_eyes: Anyway, this night was apparently the night of hugs, because he asked for one… which I gladly gave, of course, being the TOUCH-LOVING person I am… full body contact, of course. :wink: Before he left that first time he asked for another hug, and as he was leaving he leaned over me and said I hugged really good. It really is nice when one’s skills are recognized and appreciated!! :smiley: Each time he’d come over and get a longer hug. And when I was getting ready to leave, I IM’d him and said I was leaving, if he wanted another hug… he was there in about 30 seconds. He held my coat and helped me put it on and walked me out to my car, opening all the doors, of course. I could get used to this!!! The longest, yummiest hug was at the car, when his hands strayed to my butt and one of mine ended up in his front pocket… HOW’D THAT HAPPEN??? :open_mouth: :o Can I tattoo MX135 into my skin so it’s there permanently? Maybe in time-release capsulettes??? I NEVER want to run out of this stuff!!!

Anyway, I got a call from my date guy this morning and he said he really missed not having me there when he woke up. Instand Honesty hangover? I’m gonna have to try this mix out some more!

Meanwhile… Mr. Fling is supposed to come over Tuesday night. Maybe I’ll try an even heavier dose of the MX135 and see how things go. I wish I had some of the Safari mix to try that night… GRROOOWWWLLLL!!! (homage to Enchanted April - love ya!)

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Wow! That was great. I love living vicariously through your posts. We are the same age, but TOTALLY different lives. I am a teensy bit jealous. Ok, TONS jealous. And I totally agree with you about MX135. If we keep talking it up, maybe they will make it in gallon jugs - with a power sprayer!

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Noob - this is all new to me in the last 6 months or so. I’ve lived vicariously most of my life, so this is all SO FUN & NEW!!! My girlfriend just laughs at me and says I’m boy-crazy. I never got the chance to go through that phase when I was younger, so I guess I’m making up for lost time. :slight_smile: I can’t wait to get my next order and try out some of the products! … there’s some Lust After Me in that order, of course!

Hey, how about one of those big barrels & sprayers they use to spray farmland with? Out of the shower, run under an MX135 rain, and off we go!

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Loved the report! Cant wait to hear more. Oh you will have lots of fun with LAM, espeically when spraying MX135 overtop, it can attract some yummy boys, er um or men :smiley:

I wouldnt reccomend mixing LAM and another cops formula though (like EoW) they are rumored to not mesh well and to give an opposite effect to the desired one…