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To create instant rapport and effortless leadership, id say that brings to mind a combo of A314 and IH. The leadership, respect, alpha-ness, approval seeking all comes right out of A314 and to make the rapport better, soften the intimidation, and enhance the bond and trust aspect of you being the leader which is very important is the IH. This is a great combo for work, sales, commission type jobs. If you want it to be more light hearted, then you could do A314 + some shine.
Ill provide you with a link on how to find your sweet spot if you havent come across it already. But i think you should start out with 1 drop and increase until you see too much intimidation and distancing or shit testing from others. And remember, A314 is a slower burn mone that builds and gets better with time. The hits are a little more subtle if you dont know what you are looking for. Many users find that after 1-3 months they look back and realize that their sales are up, people mimick their behaviors, ask them for their advice constantly, and are loaded up with a lot more work and expectations of them to know everything. These are just some examples and hope this gives you some direction 
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