Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago,
I had some issues that I have worked through, mostly just being a boring boyfriend
(date night was pizza and tv, never did anything exciting). Anyway, we lived together
for many years, but the last 6 months it had been long distance while I set up
our new house. She recently has been with a new guy and I have been dating around. She actually left me for him.
She had planned to come here and visit me for 2 weeks, and stay in my guest bedroom
And I decided that I honestly wanted to do a re-try of the relationship, just hold me and her relationships off for 2 weeks, and see if we could get back together, she agreed.
She will be here in 10 days, she’s not really into the new guy, just into having a new guy, you know, the process of getting with someone new is exciting. She wants excitement.
My life is much more exciting now. (going out many times a week, jet ski-ing, wake boarding, camping/hiking)
Anyway, her complaints where that the passion and fun/excitement had worn off. We had been living mostly as just friends, with sex about once a week for maybe 2 years.
Since then, I have made major changes to my appearance (lost a lot of weight, 15 more lbs at least to go though) and have built a great fun lifestyle that I know she would love.
I am just looking for a pheromone to help push her over the edge and make the decision to get back together, it would mean leaving her family, friends, and boyfriend. She is coming for 2 weeks and if it works out, she will just stay.
I have tried ammo/ IH / IO in the past with little to no results, and honestly, just loosing weight and getting a new hair cut has given me great results and I usually get a pretty high caliber girl interested in me everyday, however, I really just want to get back with my ex.
I am on a very limited budget, so I was thinking of going with a to-go for a while, and I would get a314 but I have tried it once, and I think I am pretty confident as it is and didn’t really notice much for results, and the price is way too high for me.
Would TUTH be a good choice? Maybe instant shine? I want her to see me as a new, fun and exciting guy. She already knows I am dependable and trustworthy, and when we fell in love, I had a lot more edge (rock band, long hair, ect…).
I think she is going to be very nervous when she gets off the plane, do I hug him, do I kiss him, do we go home and hang out or do we go home and have sex, I want this to push her towards excitement and arousal, that’s what was missing the last 2 years. But actually going forward with it, would mean leaving her current boyfriend and moving in with me, so it would feel risky for her, and she has some doubts. I originally asked her to come for 6 weeks, and she said that we would make it 2 and if it worked out, she would just stay.
Btw – I’m 23, I work out a lot, I have a very high sex drive (more than you can imagine), I come as as very laid back, but I do have a VERY aggressive side (but not temperamental). I don’t know if this matters on what I choose. I used to be read as arrogant and jerky, but since I lost weight I think I come off more as fun and cocky.
Thanks.
Edit: What I am looking for is that old “butterflies” and “sexual tension” feeling we used to ahve, at least for the first few days. If I can get that, I’ll be made.