And get yourself instantly and irrevocably labeled - creepy as fuck!
Oh and you can bet that all her girlfriends will get to know about this “creepy guy,” word for word, very quickly!
Seriously, I have never known a girl respond anything other than very badly when when asked this and most usually they wanted to get far away from the asker as quickly as possible. Which has proved to be to my advantage on a few occasions!
And yes, its not just confined to virgins either - Another variant I’ve heard often enough is along the lines of - “I’ve made bad choices with men before, so I’m saving it for someone different/special/real” etc… Resolve that usually lasts just until the next guy who is everything she dosen’t want but really does it for her hoves into sight.
And my take on the whole “I’m saving it for marriage” thing is that yes, there may be a few who really are but the vast majority are simply saying - No, not you, NEVER, or in some cases its a shit test/fairly brutal attempt to string a guy along for company/attention/other gratification in the hope she will change her mind. Either way, getting right out of there is by far the best option.
I’m not going to guess if its true or not, but typically when it is they usually tell you in person when things are escalating a bit to fast for them. However, if I remember correctly, she did it via text a few days later. I’ve had that happen before and it was a boundary test. I reversed it on her when I saw her face to face and played it as I couldn’t ever have a solid relationship with someone not mature enough to reveal something as important as that in person. I respected her opinion but found it difficult to respect her if she wasn’t going to be confident enough to face difficulties in our relationship in person. I told her we should remain friends and as long as she was okay with me enjoying my carnal desires with other women we could still see each other. She was floored and turns out she was the sluttiest girl I met in a long time. It was a total test, but I believe she was simply attempting to make herself feel better. In this particular incident it was over a chat client.
What I discovered was that she couldn’t do it in person because she was very bad at lying. Is that your case? As I said I won’t guess, but all I can relay is my personal experience. Regardless if its true or not in your case, she should have the maturity to have done it in person. If you allowed her to do it to you, next the breakup and everything else will be done by text. The point is whether she is a virgin or not, she still boundary tested you and determined you can be pushed pretty far. In my opinion it was a mistake to let her get away with that type of behavior.
