hi everyone,
i’m a 24 year old college student on the east coast of the States. i’ve heard about pheromones since many years ago but i never thought much of them until i found pheromone talk (and discovered that hey, it seems like pheromones do actually work!)
i am an introvert, and i used to be very socially awkward. but as i grew up, things begin changing, and while i still enjoy being alone, i have learned to interact with others on a more natural and forthcoming manner.
nevertheless, there are moments (especially with large crowds) that i get very self-conscious, or there are times when i just don’t feel like interacting (and people seem to get intimidated). then, there are the rarer moments when i am the life of the party, and when i speak i ooze with charm. other times i walk with confidence and nothing really gets to me. still there are times when i can sit around and simply enjoy the company of good friends and good laughs.
while i haven’t exactly nailed down what causes these fluctuations, it seems that my diet plays a large role in determining my interactions with people. i find, firstly, that to interact well i need lots of energy, and secondly, meat causes me to be self-conscious, believe it or not. also, to enjoy life and laugh at things, i’d have to keep my serotonin (a neurotransmitter purported to give a sense of well-being) levels high. all these happens on a vegetarian diet, hence, that’s what i’m going to start trying.
what has set me free from self-consciousness, ultimately, is when i learn to come to people to enjoy and give to them, instead of wondering what they can do for me. when i place their needs before mine, that’s when i stop being self-conscious because there is no longer a need to impress them, and that’s when i can truly enjoy their company.
what then am i hoping that pheromones can do for me? i don’t really know, but i definitely wanna start on the socials first - IS, IH, IO - and see if it’ll make me approachable and less intimidating (or i could just smile more…)
then i’ll move on to AMMO and see if i get more female attention 
and to IG and see if it’ll help me sell my car LOL. i’m not sure if i wanna use A314 though, considering that i already easily give off an unfriendly vibe, and i’d rather people come to me as equals and have fun, than think of me as of higher value.
i do have some reservations though- while i understand that pheromones do give you an edge, i am concerned that it could become a crutch, or worse, a veneer that my insecurity hides behind.
i’d rather be real, and if it means getting less attention, or respect, or fun, then maybe that’s not too bad in itself. at least if and when i do get attention, or respect, i’d know it’s because of who i truly am. and that’s what we all want, don’t we? to be truly attractive, or deserving of respect, or flowing with confidence, because through many hard knocks and life choices we have been molded as such, pheromones or not. at that point, we’ll have nothing to prove, because we truly are.
