I have been reading quite a bit in here. As with most science, I guess you dont know what you dont know. I have seen a few of the guides, but… is there somewhere to find suggestions for first timers given our individual personalities as I understand its a critical component??
thanks.
Hi iwonderr
Great to have you here in Pherotalk so welcome 
Ok so you have been reading a bit here & wish to know any good suggestion for first timers, well try reading up this thread by clicking the link there> What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated I think that thread should help you there
Ok btw tell us what is your goals in using pheros here, what kind of effects you hope to get from them plus a bit of info on your personality so that we can help you better there
Thanks. I have read that and I dont think I will have excess expectations. I cant say that I have specific goals but would like to see them at work. I am a man who< i dont think lacks others respect. In fact I have been told I am intimidating to women. Most men treat me with more than healthy respect, which I try to accept with humility. I suppose I am interested in how A314 might affect me. I would like to be more approachable to women at times, and of course, at times, see if I can ratchet up the desireable meter at will (if that is realistic).
Hi and welcome to the forum.
It’s a lot easier for us to point you in the right direction if we know a bit more about your personality. How would you describe yourself? Shy, outgoing, chatty, quiet, introspective?
If you find that you intimidate women I’d suggest maybe trying Instant Female Magic which has a somewhat calming effect, is great for moodiness and pms. A lot of the guys here use it to connect better with the ladies.
Instant Openness or Come Talk To Me2 might be a good choice too. Either of them would make you seem more approachable, make people chattier and give a postitive vibe to you, making people more relaxed around you.
A314 is the phero for respect as well as a bit of attraction too I think. Its gives off the alpha male vibe and is one of the phero’s that’s recommended for work ans social situations.
Hope that helps, if you have any more questions just give us a shout
I would describe myself as shy and introspective, but only around new people. I am rather quiet with a dry sense of humor (very funny), but no lack of self confidence. My position dictates that I stay serious most of the time. Some think of me as aloof but I would never intentionally give off that vibe. Thanks to all for trying to guide. I do appreciate it.
I tend to be a bit introspective myself and I love Instant Shine for that. It gives me a bit of a happy energy boost, and it does just what it says on the bottle, it makes me shine.
I also love Come Talk To Me, it’s one of the socials that affects both myself and those around me, making them approach me and talk to me more, at the same time as it makes me chattier and more comfortable with talking to people I don’t know well. It basically relaxes everyone.
As far as being serious at work, I still reckon the A314 is the best bet. It will be give a vibe of alpha male confidence, competence and respect. I obviously don’t use it myself (being female and all) but I hear a lot of the guys here on the forum raving about it.
Your welcome on the thread, ok for your situation there, which i have studied there, i would recommend Instant Shine, IO & AMMO Why? Well Instant Shine is good at boosting your self confidence plus it make you & the people around you feel comfortable/great, IO as this phero will break the ice in your conversations plus it make you be more approachable with people there & AMMO to increase your desireable meter as this phero is used for sexual attraction there & have good feedback from it
As for A314 that you are interested there, yes i would highly recommended that for use at work but bear in mind just watch your dosage with that to avoid any bad OD. OD means OverDose.
This is what i can think of to help you there & all the best in trying the pheros. See ya
HI thee,
Welcome to the forum.
For your case I suggest A314, Shine and IH.
A314 is for the respect. People will respect, trust and think you are capable. Good for work and business.
Shine will make people around you in lighter mood. YOu will also feel the self effect too and boost your confidence. Good for social and make people like to be by your side.
IH will make people closer to you. They will feel like knowing you for long time. They will talk in personal to you.
Good luck.
CHeers
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
My name is Tisha and I am the hostess and a mone expert here on PT. Glad you decided to join us.
Ok I am sorry but I am gonna have to pull rank here LOL
Do not get A314, Your quiet and aloof , you want the approach, you intimidate already. A314 will amplify the intimidation.
A314 will not do this for you with your current personality. Not that there is anything wrong with your personality but you want to up the desire meter and be more approachable which means we need to soften up that vibe just a little.
I suggest AMMO for sex appeal, this will get the meter running.
IFM to calm comfort and give a feeling of contented well being. It also evokes affection. It will soften that intimidation factor without taking anything away from your current Alpha status.
Ishine to give you a warmer more charismatic charm. This will help with being approachable.
If you have questions just ask. Your GC is on its way 
Tisha
Wow, thank you all for your advice. I know you are sincere in your recommendations. I think I might have to agree with Tisha here. I dont seem to have an issue with being treated with (almost too much) respect and being a go to person for answers and advice. I have ordered the following just FYI. IS, IG, Instant female magic, tuth and ammo. A bit indecisive huh? someone was kind enough to also include come talk to me.
btw Tisha, do you think electro shock might change my current personality?? also, if someone could provide hints as to when and where to mix and match these, that would be great. I read a bunch here and know just enough to be dangerous…