Socials mones that AD provides are a great resource! I personally love how they make me feel at ease, like with the INSTANT SHINE and get others to open up to you with a torrent of conversations, like with the IO.
For your particular scenario, I’d suggest some IG, IShine and IH to get a vibe of respect, at ease around you, and a feeling of being able to open up to you and talk intimately.
Check out here why AD does mones this way, with exact mu and consistent ingredients here:
As you have a Phd in psyc, take a look at this member’s thread, I think you’ll find it of interest as well! dbot has some excellent observations posted.
Welcome and hope to read on your particular uses of mones!