You know I have posted my problems before on here, and honestly havn’t really found a solution to them before. I thought maybe it was because I didn’t ask the question properly, so this time have put my whole story on here for you guys to properly asses. Thankyou.
So here is the gig, I know this girl through a friend of mine, lets call her AJ, me and AJ have partied together a couple of times before but obviously with other friends there. She has showed me some what interest before. :About her personality:, she is not like other girls, she will say what she thinks, no matter how nice or bad it is. Without saying something extremely insulting she will say anything. She also flirts alot. She is 8ish looks wise and I really like her personality id give that 9, so in all she is 8.5.
Now basicially I think she asked me out, and I said sometime next week we will do something. I have spent the last one hour putting the story together for you guys, who would like to know detail before they answer my very important questions at the end. If you don’t want to read, atleast please answer my questions at the end. Lots of thanks in advance for the help.
THE STORY
Interessting encounter #1
- She gave me her number the first day we met, without me asking for it, she put it in the phone. Detail (we were eating food at a restaurant, me, my 2 buddies, one girl, one guy and AJ, I wanted to sell something and she was interrested in buying it, so she took my phone and put her number in it). Although I never thought it was because she wanted me to ask her out at that point.
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Ineressting encounter #2
*- A bunch of us went clubbing, we all went back to her house had a couple more drinks and chillaxed. There were two other guys along with the same group as the last encounter, so pretty much a sausage fest, me and 3 other guys, and 2 girls. OT1 (other guy 1)(average) was hitting on her the whole night sorta thing, they were dancing a bit too. Anyhow when AJ went to the kitchen to mix some drinks OT1 went there too, I over heard the convo and he got rejected. Than she came over to me and sat down beside me on the love sofa. The other ppl were sitting around in a circle with us. AJ and I were cuddling at this point, and sorta flirting. Than she started telling me that we would be crazy in the bed (keep in mind she had some drinks at this point). And I said why, and gave me some stupid nonsense answers that were funny, she kept repeating it and this went on for a good 10 minutes. *
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At this point AJ was going thru a break up, so I had to say no to her. She got mad and told me to take my arm back from around her. A little while later some how we ended up talking about OT2 (good looking) and we mentioned that maybe he will stay behind with her, We joked that maybe she could be with him, and she said no and said she found him unattractive lol. OT3 (good looking) is the one who is good freinds with her, and she has also displayed interrest in him before. But that was a long time ago and they had established that they were just gonna be friends(thats wat I think anyways, cause its been a few months ie, 6 and they havn’t really done anything together, sexual that is, I don’t even think that they have kissed). IDK why!
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*Other small encounters; *
- Me and OT3 and AJ went to get some food one day, played some sports and hanged out day time this time.
*- Me and some friends were having a bon fire, I called her (first time) and told her to come and party with us. We went and picked her up and she was glad she came with us. That night was crazy fun. The next day I woke up at my friends house there were ppl sleeping every where lol, AJ and OT3 were sleeping beside each other with ppl around them, they were relatively close to each other than the other ppl around them. I am not sure why they did that while there was a perfectly empty sofa right beside OT3. When I first saw that I found it kinda awkward but than again I have slept with my female just friends too. *
- Okay so one day we were talking online, just chatting away. And than we started flirting (if thats possible online lol) and than she said that we could have gone to the movies by now or done something other than msn. And I said that I had been busy and will be for this week but next week we could prolly do something. She agreed.
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- Today she called me and asked if I would like to go to the movies with her and one other friend (girl) and I said I wouldn’t be able to go to the late show cause I had to work in the morning. She doesn’t have a cell phone so she called me from the other girls cell, who is also a good friend of mine. Anyhow a little while later, she called again lol and wanted to meet up with me and the guys that I was hanging out with. So I said sure since we weren’t doing much there. We met up in a parking lot, than decided to drive to one of my buddies places that I was with. On the way, I found another one of my 2 buddies driving around and we told them to follow us. So great again we had another sausage fest 5 guys and 2 girls lol. Anyhow I was hungry so I left with 2 of my other friends (one of them OT2) AJ and her friend (F1) was left there with OT1 and the other guy. I dropped my buddies off and left (had to do something), came back bout an hour later. My two buddies that I found driving had left by than, at this point it was only OT1 and AJ, and F1. I went in there and we were talking for a bit. F1 does’t really like OT1 either (it must be his crazy ADD personality) but today she was play fighting with him like she does with all her other well known male friends. AJ felt left out, anyhow she asked me to come inside with her cause she “didn’t know how to change the music” But we were followed by OT1 as well. Anyhow I left fairly soon. Cause I wanted to get some sleep before I work tommoro, but I couldn’t sleep and here I am writing this for you guys.
So sometime this week I am going to ask her out and make sure that I say that its a date, cause I don’t like to play stupid games. I wana say date cause that way I would find out if she is really interessted in me or not. Which I still don’t know.
Right now I have on order Instant gentleman and Ammo. From what I have read, Instant gentleman has neg effect on young girls, I don’t know if 25 would be concidered young. From my own experience I would say I proly produce very small amounts of -none. I do live in Canada and it hasn’t been shipped yet. So I don’t know if I should go on a date before the pheros get here. Or maybe I should. Please advise.
Questions:
#1, Please help me find out if she is interessted in me or have you also had girls act like this and not be interessted realationship wise?
#2, Should I wait till I get the pheros to go on a date with her, what I wana do is take her mini golfing! A: I should take her mini golfing, B: I should wait till the pheros, C: Wait till the pheros but take her on a smaller date ie, coffee/icecream.
#3, The main question, what should I wear when Iam going out with her, IG or Ammo or both. Or I shouldnn’t wear anything around her till I know my sweat spot around other people, do you guys think I can OD on IG?
