Good Afternoon All!
Greetings from the UK, I hope you’re all well! ![]()
This intro is a long and describes my journey to this site. Hopefully it will amuse a few people. Here’s a little bit about me…
Age: 32
Sex: Male
Race: White British
Blood type: O
Height: 175cm
Location: UK
What got me looking into pheromones??
Well, the 6yr relationship I was in ended amicably about 3 months after we both agreed that we just grew apart, but admittedly confidence slightly knocked. It was at that point I realised that I had slowly given up nearly all my independant social circles during the LTR - (lol when did that happen?) and needed to make new friends.
I’m a nice guy who’s open, honest & friendly. I learnt in my late teens that one night stands didn’t feel right for me so being single again at the age of 32 it felt daunting to go out again socially so I started to look for something to help me stand out from other guys. I got myself new clothes but always present myself well clothing/grooming wise, have hygeine standards, am a happy person but have never worn cologne (just a mens aftershave balm - classy I hear you say!
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I have never been a fan of clubbing or looking for women in pubs/bars, all my past relationships have stemmed from meeting them in sports clubs, friends parties or other activities and majority of times being friends in the first instance rather that chasing them outright. Some of my friends think thats wierd and they go out having one night stands and see it as a game. It works for them and I respect them for ways that work for them.
Think I saw an article about pheromones that got me thinking so did a google search for pheromone products in the UK of which there seems to be a distinct lack of companys/reviews.
Unluckily I found PheroTalk after I had purchased a pheromone product from a UK website called Attractant. I’m not up on the science but the product contains approx 3mg of 5-Alpha-Androst-16-En-3-One Androstenone per 100ml bottle. Their website stated dose wise to apply five or six sprays onto your clothing.
I consider myself goodlooking, physically fit as I love cycling, swimming, body combat, circuit training etc 5-6 times a week, I’m near completion of a degree and work for the emergency services. With all that I don’t ordinarily consider myself stupid (maybe I was desperate for that edge without finding any reviews about it) but thought I’d give it a go.
The bottle arrived and confusingly the dosing directions were 3-4 sprays max on clothing…erm bit of a conflict to the website advise. Well, the first spray that came out of the nozzle surprised the hell out of me. It was a powerful jet that came out in a blast radius on my shirt collar like a woman might get from using hairspray, plus it stank of alcohol! I was like blimey, is this a bottle of vodka spray?!? I reluctantly gave another 2 sprays going for the minimum advised dose. The alcohol smell evaporated after a bit and thought I’d give it a go so I left the house feeling happy and confident as I was heading out for a lunch date with a woman I get on with well and always relaxed around.
Long story short about the lunch was I’m convinced from reading about overdoses in the forums that I was being affected in a negative way, and she was certainly too. Whether I was coming across as too dominant or not but she would go through phases of giving IOIs, looking confused or not seeming to notice me and that has never happened before. I got home as soon as lunch was over to get my shirt off and must have taken a few hours to feel normal again. Truely bizzare!
It certainly wasn’t the affect I was expecting so further googles led me to this site.
I must say I’ve spent hours reading all the posts and have gained insight into the fascinating world of the different pheromones and affects. I think posts/advice on your forum recommend using -none products at night events, i.e., parties or clubs… is that right?
What do I want from a pheromone?
I admit I have moments where I need that extra confidence to act on the IOIs that I see them so an extra advantage has to help right?
I’m not sure if I am consciously nervous talking to women I meet but anything that helps them feel relaxed around me enough to want to talk then that would be great as I can be a great listener. ![]()
Being in the UK I have to also consider budget (i.e., international delivery) so will prob be limited to two products at first. If I was in the US then I would spring to three!
Thinking of ditching that -none pheromone after one more experiment but the two products I am aiming to get from Androtics are Ammo and Instant Openness.
Any thoughts or other advice greatly appreciated ![]()
Warmest Regards
Col