I would appreciate advice from experienced members on what to wear next time I see this massage therapist. I tried to organise the information to make this easier to skim through.
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my physical profile: east african/middle eastern, 28 years old, short, 30kg overweight.
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I have been out of the phero game for a while, so I’m like a beginner all over again. (used to be active in 2008 on here I think).
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Products I have now : A314 oil, MX353, and the INTRO pack (A314 B spray, AMMOx2, ISx2, IO, IHx2, TUTH, IG, MX297).
A314 was the only product I have until last night’s delivery, has been the only product I’ve had for a good year.. I use it sparingly, gets very subtle hits.. sometimes obvious ones from older women, and the day after application is when hot younger girls make eye contact (girls who wouldn’t be checking me out otherwise)
Location: UK.
- Latest phero- related incidents:
- on Wednesday I went to a spa for a massage. I wore A314, two drops since my bottle only drops 2 or 3 at a time depending on luck.. never single dropping. As soon as I walked in, it was on. I was asking a lady about the oils they use and she explained things to me. We were locked in eye contact, I thought she was the receptionist because she’s Caucasian (at a Thai massage place) but after laying on the massage bed, I realised she’s been assigned for me. She was paying me a lot of attention. She took the time to let me smell every oil they had and choose what I like. She was chatty, asked a lot about me and we had a good rapport. Turns out she’s greek and working here in the UK. The massage was very personal. I like therapists who treat me in a personal way and allow me in their personal space. Some therapists, especially in the US, they keep things “procedural” let’s say. I like it when a therapists allows her body to touch mine, not in a seductive way necessarily but simply showing she’s comfortable there.. I like it when they respond to your hands touching theirs, when they touch your face/neck. I don’t go to get a massage to simply de-stress muscles.. there’s chairs for that. I get a massage to feel loved and taken care of. You can’t get that love and care from a “massage parlour” where the girls simply pump you up, turn you around, and recite a menu and ask for cash. That’s not what I’m talking about.. I’m talking about the legitimate therapist you find once in a blue moon, who’s like an angel radiating love through every touch. That’s the lady I met.
Now, people in the service industry who are good at what they do will be genuinely nice to everyone, show interest in their lives, and be attentive and affectionate.. but here’s why I think it’s a definite hit:
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Even though she’s going home in a week, she made a point to invite me to stop by and have tea with her (at her work place) when things are slow. She mentioned it twice during the session. I initiated that by saying “I would like to see you again”, which I meant with “I’d like another massage from you before you leave”.
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She made fun of my boner. Therapists are not supposed to acknowledge/comment on that, from what I read online. It wasn’t suggestive.. just goofy, when she was massaging my legs I said “I like that” and she said “well, I can see you’re not the only one who does like it giggles”
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She thanked me a lot by the end of the session and said she’s glad I enjoyed it. She said I seemed a bit bored and she was worried. I told her I can be quiet sometimes that’s all.
I’m seeing her on Sunday hopefully. We have an appointment. She said she’ll take me upstairs where the rooms are quieter, away from the reception.
What I would like? to continue building up on the vibe we have. Last year, I was visiting this Chinese massage therapist somewhere in Asia.. she might’ve been 20 years older than me, I don’t know.. but she was the best.. one time when she was massaging my shoulder over me, she leaned down and kissed my lips. I was probably wearing A314+AMMO summer+IO. If this greek lady acted similarly let’s just say I won’t complain 
The guy on the anoretics help chat suggested 2 sprays of MX353 + IS or IH.
Today just to test the new products, I sprayed 1.5 A314 spray, two MX353, two IO, one ISx2, one IHx2.. and I knew I might’ve over done it.. a rookie’s mistake. First of all, IO smells bad.. when I opened the package last night MX353 was leaking, it got on my hand.. about a spray or so I would say.. MX353 smells wonderful. I showered right before wearing these today but who knows.. maybe there was residue. Also.. when I think about it.. is wearing MX353 like wearing TUTH during the day? I mean the pheros were working.. I was feeling super amazing today.. I was singing and I was happy. I didn’t get a ghost reaction in the sense of getting irritated/angry/depressed (which happens when I overdose from prior experience).. but I wasn’t getting major hits or anything.. but it could be a UK thing, I’m new here.. I don’t know the people well. I did notice a few girls noticing me but it didn’t seem like IO or IH got them.. more like I was irritating.. this polish lady at the coffee shop was less friendly than usual, yet she still looked at me a few times after I sat down.. but who wants to be horny while making coffee? that’s why I’m thinking it’s not right in the context of day time.. or I didn’t use it properly, in combination with the right things and the right dosage..
I was wearing all this product so I said screw it, let me walk into a random massage place and see if I get a reaction when a female is stuck in a room with me for 30 minutes.. I didn’t know if the place was legitimate or not.. but it turned out legitimate (not a prostitute hole) so that was alright. At the beginning of the massage she seemed put off/bothered by me.. I could hear her breathing hard.. but I kept chatting to comfort her and she warmed up to me.. The massage was great. nothing sexual happened. This Thai lady was 46 but looked much much younger, very fit beautiful. She told me she has a daughter my age back home.
Judging by today’s experience.. should I even try MX353 for my greek massage? I don’t wanna make the lady uncomfortable.. if I were to use that, what should I combine it with? I think I gotta have some A314 the oil version since that’s what she got introduced me with.. and then either MX353/AMMO/or TUTH and then IS and IH?
Your thoughts would be appreciated!
