Hi Everyone!
My name is Kate, I’m from San Francisco. I found your website through another website where one of the visitors gave your link and said that its great website. I can not say that I never heard about pheromones, but for sure I never paid too much attention till now. Why now? Well, I’m 28 y.o., I’m married for 5 years and for some reason relationships with my husband doesn’t work the way it supose to be between man and woman. I’m 28, but I look a lot younger, in a great shape. My husband appreciate that I take care of myself, he likes that. Before we got married we were crazy about each other. Soon after we got married in a couple of weeks he lost interest at me… Since then we don’t have sex… And it drives me crazy.. We talked many times about it. He blamed himself at first, but now he is mostly blames me, that its my fault. And I honestly don’t know what happend. I’m exactly the same as I was before we got married. Men on the street always give me complements and turn the head at me. Guys that I’m working with always saying that they would ask me out if I wasn’t married. But for some reason my husband is not crazy about me. I’m writing you to see if your “magic” pheromones can do miracle in my relationships… I’m just lost right now and don’t know what to do.. I love him and I honestly don’t want to get devorce. I was reading forums on your website and seems like very cool people here, and you sell great product.
Anyway, I will be glad to hear any ideas.
thank you for your time
Hello Kate, I’d would like to welcome on the behalf of everyone here at the forum. In regards to your situation pheromones won’t work miricales they only enhance present feeling in accordance to the product’s specific affect.
But from what I’ve heard this might help. If your try to spice up the bedroom you shoud go with TUTH (but use little because its a none based product and is especially strong the younger you are), but if your looking to reopen communactive pathway then try a mix of instant honesty, instant openness and/or instant shine.
Although in order to get exactly what you might need you need to say more about what it is exactly that you want to change in the relationship. Y’know whether or not its about attention, talking, or sex.
If this is confusing you dont worry i know how it feels as i am fairly new here as well. But the best thing overall I can suggest is get the GC and test out which products you think might help.
Wish you all the best with your marriage and i hope that pheromones help you out.
Hi sunflowers and a welcome to the forum!
Do he give you any hints of interest? I’d wonder about a guy like that, though, if you were all into each other before getting married… Sometimes guys go through a funk as well, emotionally, but, that’s why you should share with your SO… I don’t know…
For the mones, you may want to try IS/b to increase your sexiness in his eyes. Though, from your description of taking care of yourself, this seems to be already there. Possibly, IS/b will underline and highlight your sexiness, a kittenish, Natalie Portman sweetness, as has been described by some gals.
Now, I’d also suggest Instant Shine and IH for you to TALK to him. Get him relaxed and try to open him up on the subject. You will need to be willing to listen and ask him open ended questions so that you give him an opportunity to really, talk about what’s been happening…but, these mones are enhancements, chemical signals. They will only hightlight what is there… YOU. So keep that in mind, my dear!
On the GC, I got mine in about 4 days from the first time I posted on a Friday afternoon. So, you should get the attention from the admins around here in a day or two.
Thanks for joining and posting…
Welcome to pherotalk Sunflowers!
Pheromones are not magic and don’t work the way ppl think they do. Your husband was once on fire for you and you haven’t changed since you guys got married so the problem doesn’t seem to be physical.
I recommend instant honesty for closeness and to open the doors for deeper level of communication.
Instant sexiness/b to give off that soft, sweet vibe and to make you feel comfortable in your own skin.
I also advice that you also seek more opinions and advise in the female section and from our pheromone expert Steve.
We will try our best to assist and hope that together we can come up with steps towards making your hubby want you again.
Your gc was issued! 
Hey Sunflowers Welcome to the club! I think before you go any farther you should read this thread:
I know it is from the men’s section, but it is very informative on the topic of pheros.