Greetings and Salutations from a Hopeful Cynic

Hello!

I stumbled on this site googling pheromones after a lengthy gap of absence having first learned of them over ten years ago. Back in that day, information was scant, and the only real experience I’d had with them was due to a womens perfume that was, as I recall, pricey and supposed to make you feel more self-assured, and thus.

The thing was, it did. Mind you, I’m something of a mystical cynic. A quasi-scientific revolutionary wannabe, I am easily fascinated by aspects of existence that are fringe, things that in this time present themselves as a sort of magic, but ten years from now, may be an accepted norm that all people employ.

I’m a woman of a certain age, physically located in IL with a tendency to travel A LOT, semi-attractive with no real problems attracting the opposite sex. I tend towards a certain shyness at times, though, more a tangle of internal turmoil that just won’t let go so I can. I think too much, and am not a small talk sort of girl. I long to radiate my inner beingness more, to exude confidence, to feel great in my skin.

I have a background in aromatherapy, and understand the significance of the signature of certain scents, and their ability to dramatically impact consciousness (lavender, as example). Scent is one of the most underrated of scents, and something that enters our consciousness almost immediately from birth. There are implications to that interexchange of hormones and our sensual perception of them that cannot be denied.

But I digress. A friend recently let me try a little of a pheromone-based scent that she had purchased, and there was a..recognition, perhaps? I can’t exactly define it, but it had special running all through it. Not in the standard sense (scents?) of smell, but something other. We got to talking about it, and she felt the same way and noted that when she wore it, she definitely received more attention. Subtle, but her tips would increase (she’s a waitress). Little things.

Little did I know that the field would have expanded so exponentially in the time I’ve been gone! I suspect I have a lot of catching up to do, but I am seriously fascinated - this is a far cry from the glossy ads in cheap magazines that I had associated with phermonology.

So now I’m piqued, and anxious to get started. I’m not so much looking for instantaneous sexual attraction, but more the inward evidence of that something extra, the edge, as it were. I would ultimately like the equivalent of an opiate in scent form. Something that just makes you feel good when you wear it, like on those nights when everything just goes right.

I’d also really like something that inspires. I’m creative and wondering whether there are any formulations for artistic types?

I’d love to hear from artists or writers who have stumbled onto that perfect thing. Where do I start?

Lis

Welcome to the forum, Lis.

Great intro. I think Instant Shine is something you’d be interested in. It makes people feel good just being around you and puts them in a better mood. It can also have the self-effects of bettering your own mood and giving you a slight confidence boost. Keep in mind though that not all users experience self-effects and not all of these effects last indefinitely. Therefore you might not find the same level of inspiration from pheromones that you’re looking for.

There are some putatives that certain users have reported to make them feel more focused and alert. I have not used these yet and not all users have reported the same self-effects but if you’re interested you can find more information in the Advice and Journals sections. Spaceland is out of stock but it has been reported to make users feel kind of silly. It’s a high alpha-androstrenol mix…these same molecules are present in Instant Openness but to a much lesser extent. IO tends to make people around you more talkative.

Instant Honesty is another good one which can make people feel more trusting and comfortable towards you. People will often tell you things they might not otherwise. It also helps with building intimacy. If you’re looking for added sexual attraction, Instant Sexiness is a great product for women. From what you described of your personality, I think IS/b would be your best bet but you could definitely still benefit from IS/a. ‘B’ is for more quiet, submissive personalities while ‘A’ is for more alpha, dominant female personalities.

Good luck and feel free to ask any other questions you may have.

Welcome to the forum. It’s people like you that keep me coming back to the intro section to answer questions. I love your intro. Honestly if you have that much personality in person then you already shine, however if you are looking for a pheromone to simulate that effect then as Boogieman already mentioned you should definitely try Instant Shine. With enough sprays I think it may actually be possible to float away. If I were you I would try a togo bottle of both instant sexiness b and a. That way you can determine which one you like best. I have a friend that was a classic beta type personality. But once she tried instant sexiness A she never went back.

Here is the great news though since you sound like you really are interested in the science of pheromones. You can test several test mixes and pure pheromones once you get the hang of what mones can do. Do enjoy yourself. I look forward to seeing your posts.

Hello Lis and welcome to the forum.

If you understand aromatherapy then you are already halfway there with these products. They are a little different but you obviously already have a feel for what is involved.

There are a lot of products here and how you use them is really only limited by your imagination. Of course there are three really broad areas to start with - work, general social and romance - but again there are a lot of possibilities.

I see your friend has had some success with pheros - in bringing in better tips. A very experienced member here - Lor - did similar work and discusses what worked well or not so well in her journal in the womens section.

I would suggest doing some reading tin the womens sticky section for a start and move on from there. If you have any questions there are plenty of people here who can help answer them.

Welcome to Pherotalk Blackdress!

It looks to me that you received all the assistance you could ever want for a new timer. :slight_smile:

I think when it comes to experimenting and having fun you are gonna do just fine.

To help you relax and be calm I suggest you try
Instant shine
If you want to have that goofy effect and forget about your worries for a while
Spaceland is the product for you.

Have a great weekend and enjoy your products when you receive them.

Your gc was issued. :smiley: