Hello!
First of all let me introduce myself a bit; I’m a woman of 25, I live in Portugal and I’ve been wanting to try some pheromones for years now, but just only recently I’ve made the decision of diving into this vast world full of surprises!
I’ve been doing some research about pheromones, not only the effects but also the chemical/scientific aspect of them and how they exist in nature. I’ve also been browsing some websites such as Androtics, PheromoneXS, Alpha Dream, Liquid Alchemy Labs and Love Potion Magical Perfumerie. I’ve picked a few that caught my eye but I wanted some experienced help, some suggestions and guidance, before I made my first purchase.
About myself? I’ll be very honest, I think it’s essential for people to understand who I am and how I ?work? so as to have better answers and guidance! I’m not a very confident person, sometimes I must seem like it on the exterior but it really depends on my moods, I’m young so I still live with my family (which is somewhat conservative) and I do wear very strange fashion choices so when I get out of the house I gather some attention, both male and female, it usually isn’t that bothersome until I had a stalker for weeks and started to feel insecure about myself (even more!).
I also suffered from social anxiety and depression in the past, with which I’m still struggling sometimes (mostly social anxiety). Even though I have a very rich social life sometimes I withdraw and can’t seem to socialize or even deal with my closest friends, sometimes I don’t even feel like getting out of the house to go meet them. I have mostly male friends, I always felt better with guys ever since I was little, I appreciate the feeling of protection/adoration they have for me. I also feel like one of the guys sometimes, maybe that’s why it’s easier for me to relate to male friends rather than female.
I also have a boyfriend which I’m with for almost 4 years now, and I wanted to spice things up because it feels to me, even though we’re very connected emotionally at the moment, that he got too comfortable with me (physically speaking?) and our intimacy is pretty much gone, so much as we just usually enjoy each other’s company and that’s it. So I wanted to help boost up that sexiness or incite some lust in him for when we’re together (which unfortunately is very little time, just once or twice a week for a few hours), and I wanted to make the most of it!
What I was hoping to experience from mones was a sense of security, self-confidence and even some sexiness/sexual attraction towards others.
My first goal was to, as I said previously, spice things up with my man and if possible have that cuddly feeling, that deep connection afterwards so it would be just perfect. I also wanted to gain a bit more self-confidence, not in an alpha way, I don’t like to be dominant, I like to have attention but not too much! Since that stalker incident I’m quite afraid of getting too much attention? I would like to have something to help me overcome that social anxiety of mine and connect better with my friends, mostly the male ones, but the few female friends too. So I was thinking for the male friends maybe something that would raise their attention and make them want to be near me all the time, with a happy bubbly feeling, relaxed too, and still a bit of attraction or adoration, and for the female friends something more along the lines of admiration and respect, a connection that feels like we’ve known each other since childhood and have that bond of trust.
Since I’m young and well, unemployed, I was hoping for something not very expensive just to start and see how I get along with using mones. I was thinking something along the lines of A-nol (for my problems with socializing and happy fun times with my man), B-nol (for a deep connection with friends and boyfriend) and Cops (for the boyfriend of course) would be nice for the results I want but I don’t know if there’s any instant mixes with those in the quantities necessary for what I desire, and since I’m a noobie at this I don’t want to try mixing them myself or even having a custom order. I looked at Innocence XS for the friends part, to the Tease/Flirt/ConnectionsXS or Instant Sexiness for the boyfriend and even Turn Up the Heat (I’ve heard that women can use it too with amazing results!) or Sexpionage/Overt Cops for Covert Ops for a more pronounced result, but I’m afraid of the Cops because I’ve read they have a very strong scent and that it can be very unpleasant if not covered well. I had a male friend once tell me I had very strong pheromones (he could smell mine just by standing beside me and it kinda creeped me out a bit at the time) and he would get attracted almost instantly so I’m also scared that if I pick something strong it might be too strong mixed with my own pheromones, but at the same time I don’t want anything that’s too mild for me not to detect any results. Please advise me on this, when I dive into a new world I always try to get as much information possible so as to make the best choice for what I need/want, I’ll be very much appreciated if you could help me out 
Sorry for the looooong introduction post and also for any grammar or spelling errors! And thank you so much for reading
