Hi all ![]()
Pheromone newbie from the UK here, name is Michael. I’ve heard about pheromones before, but never really given them any serious consideration until this weekend happened…
Please excuse the quite long story but it’s only just happened and I’ve not told anyone.. for reasons that will become apparent! Been reading these forums for a couple of hours now and I must say all you guys seem like really friendly people - and a community I would like to become a part of.
Here goes! (deep breath)…
Was my mate from work’s 40th birthday and a group of six of us had got a four day trip to Spain booked - for some beer, laughs and sun and what-not. Anyhoo - come Friday night after quite a few beers we found ourselves in a certain club (I’m going to be as non-descript as possible here but you’ll get the general idea…) Six blokes, alcohol… we all made a pact and the rest is history (never done anything like that before and never will again, but it was an ‘experience’ - hopefully I’ve not offended anyone, but honesty is the best policy and there is meaning to this story!).
In the next bar I was in a really good mood and drinking another beer. Group of 18 girls walks in on a hen weekend. One of my mates gets up and starts talking to them, dancing etc. I’ll admit I’m a pretty shy bloke when it comes to meeting and chatting to girls when I’m on a night out, and the girlfriends I’ve had have been friends of friends to start with - not people I’ve met in clubs or bars. I threw caution to the wind and got up there too, firstly introducing myself and chatting to the bride to be (knowing full well I had no chance with her, and not wanting any chance either!) After a few more moves on the dance floor (well, I say moves.. I’m no John Travolta lol) One of the girls walks straight upto me - I must say one of the most attractive ones in the group - turns round and starts girating in front of me - grabbing my arm and pulling it round her waist. To say I was suprised is somewhat of an understatement I must admit - but I went with the flow and ended up talking to her for a good few hours, singing karoake and having a right laugh - some of my friends had left by the time we exchanged numbers and all but two of her’s had as well.
Next day we texted a couple of times but failed to meet up due to being in different parts of town with friends to consider. I was a bit down about it all coz I really quite liked her - feeling seemed to be mutual but it didn’t happen. Thought about texting now that I’m back home - go out for a drink or something but had no reply to the last couple of texts I sent over the weekend so I think I’ll not bother.
Ok that’s enough backstory - to my point (took a while getting round to it, sorry!).
My point is this; As I believe, every person excreets pheromones naturally - depending on your age etc, depends on how much. I also read once that natural pheromones are hightened after a sexual encounter (:o ). Anyone know if this is true? I’m thinking it is because that’s what I’m putting the instant attraction down to when we were in the second bar - one of my mates even said words to that effect which is what initially got me thinking - and lead me to this website/forums.
There was as many guys in the bar as girls - all my mates save one were sat outside (and they are a little older than me as well) and this girl made a bee-line for me, which is unusual like I say - but I’ve never been in a situation like that - with what happened beforehand and then the instant attraction. It really was just like I looked at her, clicked my fingers and ‘wham’.
From what I’ve been reading the past couple of hours it’s like I’d just sprayed a combination of Instant Openness, Instant Shine and Ammo lol, it really was that much of an eye opener.
I never realised there were so many pheromones available - it’s a bit intimidating tbh - what would you suggest to start with? Social ones? I’m not exactly socially inept by any means, just a bit shy when it comes to meeting and talking to single women.
Also; should i got for the ToGo bottles to start with? As I live in the UK, postage is rather a lot more expensive and I was thinking that would be a safer bet. How many sprays/applications do you get in a ToGo bottle?
Well I think I’ve rambled on enough for one post I’m sure you’ll agree :o but it’s nice to get that little story off my chest and hopefully over the coming weeks/months, once I get my first order through there should be many more like it!
Any comments/responses/questions or advice feel free ![]()
/Sn00ts