Hi Jay, Ammo and Turn up the heat would be excellent selection for you to assist in getting over the line so to speak. Ammo is the attractant, very popular with members here. TUTH should be used in moderation and only at the right moment. I would also like you to consider the social products such as instant honesty and instant openness. A314 is another that may assist with trust and respect. I suggest you have a good read about these here in The Mens Guide and let us know if you have any more questions.
Steve should be online again soon to give out gift certificates 