Hey man, welcome to the forum! You sound like a very determined person and you know what you want out of the products here. I want to say congrats for being such a go-getter, and even if you are good at what you do, there is always room for improvement…and boy did you come to to right place. There is so much to learn from the more experience members here…and lots of pretty awesome stories about not only attraction and seduction, but trust and even nutty reactions from others.
You noted that you tried out AMMO, which is a great mone that I have only tried a couple times, so I can’t give you too much info on what it will achieve besides attraction exactly… However I can steer you in the right place for finding your sweet spot. Check out this post by Tisha…brilliant stuff, and highly suggested along with starting a journal to record your affects (both self and to others). This will not only serve as a means to help others similar to you, but as a means to go back and check out your progress and find your real sweet spots.
Finally, as to your headaches, fatigue, etc…I have also heard similar stories…you are talking about mones bought from AD am I correct? I have only had one experience with my roommate saying he had a headache when I was wearing 4 sprays of Instant Openness. It could be a per-person basis…or just a combination of factors, but the most important part is knowing what mone gave you that headache and how much of it caused it. Without this information, it is hard to direct you to some help in this department.
Anyways, welcome again, and thanks for sharing with us your intentions and personal information, it helps more thank you think!! Good luck to you sir.