Hello and welcome TYTfan,
Hehehe I like this line of yours,
Now you are a real skeptic but hey i have a little bit of that thought so earlier but who wouldnt. 
I see that your 6 hours straight and 5 hours straight of reading is has given u deep and great knowledge. Totalling 11 hours and maybe even more.
Yes, Instant Shine and Ammo will help you great in this area. Trust me when u have IS. U get hyper and really self confident u just want to talk to everybody with the super confidence from in within. No i am not exagerating. I have personal encountered this situation.
IO, IH and Ammo should work great for you, If u would not open up use IO and you would definitely break the ICE but it also depends on you. Although my personal experience of IO hasn’t shown any real solid results maybe it just doesn’t blend with my body’s chemistry. I guess it would definitely be for you since you really need to open someone up. and IH will get them to have better quality convo with you. Order IHx4 and u might need to learn new tricks as if how to shut the person off. hehehe
Check out this other forummers post to IHx4’s Power,
If you are going to test it in your workplace i suggest A314 for better aura and stance.
all in all . All the best and i am real and not a replying bot heheheh
Cheers,
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