My name is Jake and i’m a 25 year old male living in Alaska.
I’m mainly on this site to quench the thirst of curiosities. I have, for a very long time, wondered how pheromones work, and because i have only been registered to the site for about 2 minutes now, i haven’t had time to look around.
I was thinking of giving pheromones a shot (just to see how they work). One of the main reasons i was very interested in trying pheromones is, not my in ability to get women to sleep with me, but hoping to intensify my sexual life with my current girlfriend of 3 years. As long as i can remember, my brother used pheromones not to seduce women, but to keep his relationship with his bride to be, alive.
This may sound like a pathetic plea for help, but for god sakes i have not had sex in 2 months and it’s killing me (metaphorically). Hopefully i can get some advice on what pheromone to use or what i can potentially do to liven up my relationship with my girlfriend.
On a side note… i don’t know if Pheromones are what does it for my brother but he is getting happily married next summer, and has been with his fiance for 9 years.
Can you tell us a bit about your personality, your girlfriend’s personality, and your current relationship? That will help in giving suggestions about which direction to tweak things with different products.
Hey there, Bacon, I mean, Jake, welcome to the mone forum.
So, do you know what mones your brother uses, a brand, possibly? Mones are good influencer’s and in some cases are better than others. They will NOT change people who have a particular point of view WITHOUT your actions. So, you’ll still need to work at it to make the mone signal go through to those around you.
However, as GWTW has mentioned, letting us know a bit about your personality and your target will help in getting a better mone ‘fit’ for you.
As you Just started out, I’d suggest some gems of threads on my sig below, Intro to Mones and how to know what are hits to get you going with what mones can and Can’t do…
Like others said could you tell us more about you? How is your relationship with your girlfriend in general? Is it only sex life that you are having problems with?
Mones are not magic pills that work like axe commercial However they can be one tool in your arsenal to make your relationship better.
TUTH is good product to help boost sexlife in relationship. It is very sexual product and should be used carefully. You also want to consider some social products. For example Instant Honesty could help in your situation for you two to come more closer with each other.
Thanks for the info. That is definitely helpful as I want to make sure I get something to compensate for my apparently diminishing mones while also making sure I don’t make it too easy to OD .
My primary interest is in trying to stoke the bedroom flames in a good relationship. My girlfriend and I are both in shape (well, we’re in the healthy BMI range but aside from my playing basketball a couple of times a week aren’t necessarily athletic) and like each other. Of course, as is expected in life, the sex slows down and even though we both say we want to recapture the past glory, the actual drive motor seems to be running on fumes.
My secondary desire is just opening up general day-to-day encounters. I work from home so I’m not generally looking to be impressive in that way. However, while I’m a pretty friendly guy and easy to talk to, I’ve been told over the years that people thought I didn’t like them when I first met them (many of my best friends say this). While I might feel at worst I was being a bit shy or quiet, I clearly send a signal of aloof or annoyed. Once I speak to people, friendship is easy, but there’s a hurdle to jump.
Obviously things like Ammo , TUTH , and most of the Instant products are recommended in some combination for both situations, but I’m happy to take suggestions on different mixes and doses.
IH and IO both make breaking the ice and conversations easier, albeit in slightly different ways. IG gives a warm, welcoming, competent male vibe that also makes interactions flow smoothly.
The primary issue is a bit trickier.
It is not necessarry or even expected for the sex to slow down to the extent you have described.
The root cause of this could be a number of things. It is possible one or both of you are fatigued. If that is the case some R&R may be what is called for. Pheromones won’t light much of a fire if there is no fuel to burn.
It may be that the interest has turned elsewhere. That is a difficult situation to reverse.
Pheromones have the greatest effect as first impressions on people who have not yet formed an opinion of us. The effects on people who already have ingrained perceptions and behaviors with respect to us are much more subtle.
You can try something like TUTH. It has possible drawbacks though. Excuse my crude imagery, but it is something like waving your privates in her face. In the right situation and mood it can be helpful, but it can also get you slapped and sleeping in the doghouse if you try it at the wrong time.
IG and/or a314 can bring more of a masterful, masculine vibration if you think that could be helpful.
IH can open the lines of communication. That may be a good thing to try to attempt to get to the root of the issue. She may end up giving some unexpected information that can be helpful in understanding the situation.
I hope this helps. If nothing else it may help you understand why we are asking probing questions.
