Hi GLord,
Welcome to the forums! I’m gay and have been experimenting with pheromones to attract other gay men. Essentially, you could use the same products to attract straight women as you would to attract bi and gay men.
Spectrum gave you great advice. Ammo is something I would have also recommended for you. It has a well balanced mix of sexual and social pheromones. You can use it solo or in combination with other products, such as Instant Shine and Instant Honesty. Adding IShine and IH to Ammo has the added benefit of enhancing the social aspects Ammo. IShine will give you the image of being a fun guy to hang with, while IH will let folks know you’re dependable and trustworthy. (IShine and IH would be an awesome combo for you at the work!)
If you can swing it, definitely consider the Intro Pack for Men. It has these products and others. You’ll have lots of products to test out in a variety of social and work situations. As you develop your confidence and conversation skills, you will find out what works best for you. This would make your investment in the larger size bottles more worthwhile.
But at least start off with Ammo or Summer Ammo. Summer Ammo is the same as regular Ammo, but it has two additional pheromones to temper its sexual aspects. Summer Ammo is best for guys in their early 20s because of the high flux of sexual pheromones that young guys naturally produce. As you mature, your levels of pheromones level off, so you might not need the tempering aspects of Summer Ammo.
You can also read myjournal. I write about my experiencing using pheromones to attract other gay men.
Good luck!