Hi ladygrey & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Hmm, good to have a female member on board
Good that you decided to joined this forum & your keen interest in pheros
For your relationship situation there, i would suggest Instant Sexiness A & Instant Honesty. These two is highly recommended by another experienced user here Kitten She know more on the Women pheros like Instant Sexiness A or B (that you have there) You can look for her in her posts here or she might drop by to your intro there. What i can say about Instant Honesty is that it is good for intimate relationship & deepen the conservation between the user & the person she talk to. And Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 will be the one issuing you the $15GC soon when she visit your intro.
Here is a link about what pheros can do if you want to know more> What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated & another link about Women Pheros> Womens pheromone guide
I hope i was able to help you there. See ya