Hi,
I am 42 year old woman from Canada.
In a relationship and trying to find a mix of phermones to help bring it alive…
Hello and welcome to the forum.
There are a lot of great products here that can help you do just that. There are quite a few of us here who use the products for just that purpose - help add a little excitement to a LTR.
I guess part of the question will be what approach do you want to take - a more aggressive one or send the signal to let him “be the man”? If you want to be a little more assertive Instant Sexy A for women is the thing. If you want a slightly more quiet sexuality that tells him to pursue - then ask for instant Sexy B. The B version is a special order but they do make it.
Hopefully the ladies will be by to give you you a proper welcome. But I hope the above is some help and gives you a starting point.
Hey Chella, welcome!!! Its always great to have another fellow canadian here. Make sure to take a look at the womens stickies to get familiar with the products offered as well as some great user tips and tricks.
To spice up a relationship sexually I would say Check out LAM and TUTH. They are my 2 faves for fun bedroom time.
However sometimes communication is the best to bring a relationship alive so take a look at the social pheros like Instant honesty, openness and Even instant shine.
If you tell us a bit more about your situation and how you want to help it we can ensure to guide you a little more specific with the pheromones.
How are the two of you relating now? How do you wish you were relating? Is it communication or bedroom flare that you want to add? Let us know and we are happy to assist.
For now take the time and go through the forum taking a look at fellow forum members experiences to help you with your own.
Welcome once again!
CC 
Hi Chella & nice to have you as a member in Pherotalk
So i see that you are looking at Pheros here to help in your relationship. Ok here is a detailed info about the ladies pheros here click on this link> Womens Pheromone Guide
Anyway you will get some of the experienced Phero Ladies to say hi to you here if they happened to see your post & they can help on your situation there. I hope you will enjoy yourself in this forum
Hi chella,
welcome to the forum.
You can try Instant Sexiness. You will be the central of attraction like the queen of the office. It is reported that it will also improve your own perception of yourself. Hopefully this will enhance your existing repationship.
If you have any question, just ask. The ladies expert will be around to help you more.
Good luck to you.
Welcome again. Cheers
Thanks for your input everyone.
Curiouschic - to answer your questions. Currently we are not relating at all in the bedroom or communication wise.
Right now I’m using Lust after Me but have had no response from him. When I first put it on he said asked what the smell was and said it smelled like vomit. I’ve tried covering up the smell with a scent and he hasn’t commented on it since, but still haven’t had any reaction from him.
I got a sample on Instant shine which he commented on and said he liked the smell. But that was all.
Since then I have ordered EOW and Instant Sexiness A. I just received them today along with a sample of Instant Openess.
Hello Chella
Welcome to Pherotalk
So you want to spice things up ? Well your in the right place, alot of us started using mones for just that reason. Keep in mind that you SO knows you mone signature already so it may take a few exposures to get the full effect but once he does it will make things interesting.
Now I agree with CC and suggest LAM. I want you to be prepared though so be forwarned its smelly LOL You will have to cover it with a perfume of your choice. There is a trick to that, apply the mones wait 10 to 15 minutes and then apply cover. Now even though its stinky once it blends on a women men dont notice the stink. No one else does either. I notice it on myself sometimes if I didnt use cover because I know what it smells like. You will need to work a little to find the perfect dosage for you but we can help you with that in the ladies forum.
I also suggest getting IS/A Its a strong confident sexy mix. It has a small amount of cops in it just to get his blood flowing in the right direction and most women report a boost of confidence and a feeling of sexiness. When you feel sexy you project sexy and you are sexy 
Next I would get Ishine. This is a youthful charismatic warm upbeat mix.
If you have any question just ask. Look forward to chatting in the forum with you.
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Tisha