Hiya all I’m in florida! So I’m relatively new to pheromones and to this forum. I just realized my ex had used them on me and wondered where would be an idiots guide for women as this site is so huge it’s a bit overwhelming. I understand conceptually the signals of human behavior and the chemical reactions that are produced. I guess what I’m saying is help?? lol More or less I’m 24, makeup turns on me and that’s with using toner and what not (oily/combo skin) and don’t know my blood type though next time I go to the docs I outta ask lol. Anyone with some redirects to a good post for women? I see a lot of stuff for men but maybe I’m just lost lol. I’ll do some google searches hehe.
Hi and welcome!
There are some great stickes full of advice for women right here: WOMEN’s Pheromone Advice, Tips and Tricks
There is tona and tons of great information, and you can post your own questions there too.
To get you started, and to help get you qualified for that free $25 gift certificate, please tell us about your personality and how you get along with others. Are you shy? Are you outgoing?
What kinds of thingswere you thinking of using pheros for? Work? School? Dating? Friendship?
welcome, sierra. this site is full of info that you can use. plenty of threads on skin care, vitamins, and other things to help you with irritation. the search tool is your friend, but please ask or pm if its something you just cant seem to find. SillyKitty, Lor, Jasmin, and the other girls are great at figuring things out.
so.. its good to have more women testers here, post your personality and plan of attack and we’ll see what we can mix up for you.
Welcome.
The sticky posts at the top of the women’s forum are a great place to start.
If you want to see what the other sex is using and why read the stickies on the men’s forum.
Welcome to Pherotalk SierrasKiss!
Thanks for the introduction. I am still not clear about a few things so as to recommend the right products for you and to get you your $25 gift certificate.
You are here for many reasons and we are all here to assist.
Read this link and it will further explain what am talking about :
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
Ahh ok. Well here goes lol. I’m not a wall flower I am typically the one that is more aware of surroundings than the average person. I’m perhaps a bit cautious, yet warm and open for the most part. I’m the go to person if people have a problem they always come and tell me. Basically if I had to sum up my personality I’m a sarcastic, witty, warm, fun loving person who tends to be the “mother” of the group for the sheer fact people always come to me for advice or consoling. I do have pcos and have bouts with panic attacks sometimes though rarely. I am actually considering phero use for myself not so much for the effect on others. I don’t know it seems a bit unfair to use them for anything else unless for some reason my sex life takes a dive,…don’t see that happening lol. I have seen a lot of “lingo” on the forums so far and I’m basically still in the deciphering stage lol. I’ll catch up still googling and doing research and what not. 
Thanks for the warm welcome guys!
Thanks for the welcome. Erm it’s not an irritation as it is when I wear perfumes or makeup the scent will change entirely or the makeup will turn a slight orange like a bad bout with a self tanning lotion lol. I’ve tried toners to no avail so I’m guessing this will strongly effect my phero usage lol. Yea I’m on the right track for vitamins and what not. I guess you could say The Maker’s Diet could summarize my general lifestyle choice preferences when I’m not “cheating”. (Came to the conclusion I’m not cheating on a diet, the diet’s cheating me out of choices ) Thanks for the tips though I got it covered on that end!
Intelligent, straight, sweet and to the point. This is the start of a beautiful friendship lol. 
Welcome to the forum.
My big question is how do you know your ex-husband used them on you?
And did they work?
Thanks! Yea I headed over to the women’s section and wow some of you have a knack for writting when it comes to the journals. It’s nice to see the reactions people are getting from certain pheros before I think about trying them.
My phero usage would primarily be for myself. I’ve read a few white papers from a few universities that pheros have been known to not only regulate women but to calm them and women are more strongly affected then men due to the fact we produce both cops and none. So basically crosses fingers I want to try and see if regular phero usage could actually make a few changes in me biologically and emotionally to even me out so I won’t feel so tired and what not.
Thanks in advanced for any help you guys can provide! 
biologically, maybe not. your body won’t change. however, pheros can definitely help you emotionally and give you some energy. ishine is a great one to start with. it gives you a polished vibe and if you use it for self effects, you might feel uplifted and peppy. it makes those around you happy too, so even if you’re down, being around happy people should get you right back up.
also to reiterate on bosshank’s question (sorry if you’re answering this now), how did you know your ex used pheros?
I basically had a dream remembered it and looked it up and stumbled on all this from…that lol. I was looking over the androtics site and I think he had the a314 from memory. I don’t know if they worked he said they were eyedrops I never got a close look at the bottle. I never felt totally comfortable around him but then again he was a bit weird anyways. He was always over confident and talked too much you were lucky to get a word in edgewise. I always felt aggrivated near him so I don’t know. Shrugs he had a couple other brown bottles but I never looked at em or cared really but it got bad towards the end he stopped taking care of himself properly and bathed 2x a week if that and doused cologne on himself really bad. Shudders ew ew ew.
Anyways that’s all I know I think he might have tried or done. If I remember what the other bottles were I’ll do a google on them too and see if I can find em.
not a big deal, i was just curious. pretty good memory 
anyway, you’re here, he’s gone, and we’ll get you set up with some great products for you to try.
I’ll have to think about that I’ve seen a few of the girls talk about shine. I was hoping though if prolonged use if it effects me emotionally (which is chemically) if over time it would effect me biologically to produce that particular hormone/phero more often. Just curious really. I read some papers on women being subjected to other femme pheros and basically being regulated with the women they work with/are around alot. Just curious if this could be a possibility. Would be nice …to an extent lol.
I don’t sweat it anymore. I’m actually quite glad he’s gone or I would never have met my current bf who really is a catch. I’m so lucky to have him. Very respectful and just as much a smart ass as me it can be fun to go back and forth with him.
Yes anyways just curious what pheros you guys would recommend. I don’t know my blood type but mother was AB pos and father was O neg? Shrugs Never cared much to find out. I guess I’ll hafta find out next time I’m in the docs. (I saw something on profile to choose blood type and did research so far I guess it affects how we react to certain pheros??)
Thanks for the help!
if i recall correctly blood type has more to do with race and different effects (as a personal example, asians and -none). the “instant” line is pretty evenly spread across the board for results with the exception of -none based products (ammo, tuth).
would you ever dabble in pheros with your bf, or is phero use strictly just for you?
Just for me. I’d rarely think to use it with him for the simple fact he has hay fever. Some perfumes send him into a sneezing fit really bad. I basically wear what he hasn’t had a sneezing fit over but considering getting some of Demeter’s. (Plus I’d feel like I was cheating >.< ) Anyone tried any of Demeter’s that has hay fever or around people they know that do?
Thanks for the much add information hun. Yes, the women here have many experiences with pheromones and in life enough to share.
In reading what you have to say I would recommend :
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Instant shine : This product hands down has self-calming effects and makes you feel lights and good. You give of a cheerful vibe and others feel happy just to be around you.
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Instant Sexiness/A : The instant sexiness products work well with your personality or the personality you want to give of. I think I would recommend this you for you because you feel confident while wearing this, you may even strut down the street.
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I will give instant sexiness/b a whirl as well. This is for someone with a marilyn monroe, soft girlie personality. Sometimes, you wanna feel sexy, soft and sweet and this is what this does for you.
Continue to read, hope to see some reports from you soon and of course I hope you become a big part of this community.
Your GC is on it’s way!
Thanks! Yea I have seen some responses on the instant sexiness A about the being almost bitchy part and dunno if I need that one lol I might try it the B sounds intriguing. Definately a lot of ppl seem to be suggesting the shine I will have to take that for a spin definately. If these things have the effect on me they have for most others then I’m sure to have a journal up and going lol. I am a very descriptive and avid writer so crosses fingers we’ll see how this goes. Thanks for the GC! I’ll definately put it to good use! Thanks for all your help guys!
Even if they don’t work out as expected please come back and tell us what happened. All honest information is valuable.