First off, I’d like to say hi. My name is Cody and I am a 23 year old male from Oklahoma. I’m going to school for radiology, and am moving out of state as soon as I have that degree! I think I just want to live somewhere for a little while that isn’t guaranteed to have smoldering 115 summer temps Cooler would be nice.
I found this site by accident really. While looking on ebay for some discontinued A&F cologne, I saw an add for pheromones, which led to google and subsequently here! I looked at mones years ago, but never tried any of it. I was too timid My close friends may not think I’m shy or reserved but in any situation with people not close to me, I tend to lose words. This can come off as uppity or standoffish which is not me at all! I am 5’8", slender with brown hair and green eyes. I am gay and have no clue if that makes any difference when trying out these products.
Right now I live with family an hour from my school and commute twice a week. I’m also in the middle of job hunting! Job hunting happens to be one of the most stressful and scary things I’ve ever had to do. I was taught to exude confidence when interviewing, and to fake it if I necessary. This is so hard! Faking confidence in a situation like that is no easy task for me.
I would like to feel just a tad more at ease while looking for a job. I would also like to meet guys with a little more ease. I also have a friend ‘A’ that I have had a secret crush on for a long time, and we are pretty close. But he never goes beyond a certain point of signal sending. I end up unsure of his feelings toward me. A very intuitive person always tells me after observing us together that ‘A’ definitely feels the same way, we’re just stuck. Advice for the best thing for the situation would be awesome.
I don’t know much about this pheromone business, except that I’ve heard that most in the industry are a waste of money. I do believe in the power of pheromones however and am very unsure what a gay man is supposed to do about it! If I sound silly forgive me. Thanks for reading!
At first glance I would say get Mystery Boy. That’s the one that most people would gather would work well for you in those situations.
However there are plenty of unisex pheromones out there that help with connection. Instant Honesty comes to mind. What Instant Honesty does is that it gives conversations deeper connections and it does give you more of the bonding feeling. I believe irregardless as long as there is attraction there, it can help amplify that. Also the standoffish vibe your friends get from you could probably be helped by Instant Shine. Instant Shine is just such a feel good pheromone product that uplifts me personally, and it shows it in my body language.
I would try those products out, there are to-gos so you can try and it should help you out a bit to see whether or not you like it.
Thank you P51Mustang! That was very nice of you and I appreciate it. I will have to do a lot more browsing and looking to get the hang of all these names!
I’m going to agree with P51 for this post. I don’t know as much about about gay men and pheromones, so I would say that mystery boy may be a great package deal. Instant Honesty would help loosen you up and your friend as well. Just be aware that you could get stuck rambling about things that you don’t want to say. Seriously, it could become embarrassing.
You should definitely do some research on the site, about pheromones that you may already give off. There is information available. Maybe ping Steve and ask him some questions directly. He has tested a lot of products for straight men, gay men, and females, and may be able to give you some info.
I do have a question that may help with more recommendations. What do you normally wear, clothing wise? Bright colors, dark colors, business attire, peacock wear? I could recommend products for confidence, but congruency becomes an issue. You have to be able to pull it off.
I typically wear jeans and t-shirts. I have an array of colors but my favorite to wear is a dark muted green or dark blue. I don’t have a lot of instances of needing to be in a suit but I do sometimes wear dark slacks. I wear a lot of polo tees as well. I’ll try to upload a picture of me soon
At first i thought the same thing that mystery boy should be a good fit for you. I would like to know move about your personality. What are you trying to get out of mones. I dont think mones reflect a lifestyle choice but a personality. If lifestyle had a significant effect how can you account for gay men in the NFL most are ULTRA alpha types. So i would pick mones that help bring out the personality that you want to portray. Also the crush you have looks to me that the reason your stuck is that neither has taken on the dominate role someone has to make a move.That being said i would suggest for the work place or job hunting Ammo or A314. I use A314 it gives me that cool confident leadership vibe. These 2 products will give you that alpha vibe. Also the social mones like IO IH and IShine these are great
Instant openness is really good at starting the conversation it makes everyone chatty. Instant honesty gives you a deeper connection like you have been life long friends. Instant shine really uplifts me mood it just makes everyone around you happy.
Regards
papa
Well, my personality is not easy for me to describe! I am fun, laugh a lot and enjoy life I can be shy, especially around people I don’t know well, and it takes me a little while to slip into a comfortable rhythm with those people. I am not dramatic and do my best to have the least amount of drama in my life as possible. I love reading and watching movies! In fact, reading and movies are some of my favorite hobbies. Lol, what should I tell you to help answer your question?
I believe that if it’s right and you are not doing harm to yourself or anyone else it’s a great idea to go for what you want with all your might and all your heart.
You got some great advice from my team and I couldn’t say it better.
Cooler would be nice.
My close friends may not think I’m shy or reserved but in any situation with people not close to me, I tend to lose words. This can come off as uppity or standoffish which is not me at all! I am 5’8", slender with brown hair and green eyes. I am gay and have no clue if that makes any difference when trying out these products.