You bought some great products and I guess you got them from the research you did on the forum.
For more information on your sweet spot read this thread although I am not sure if that’s the sweet spot you were talking about.
Now, the comments you get from the ladies about being nice has a lot to do with why you alaways just end up being their friend and this thread will give you some info as to what am talking about :
The men on this forum and the products you ordered will assist you in changing things around.