Hi everyone, I found this site because I was researching non visual social clues that cause people to treat you differently. I sometimes like to people watch and try to understand the social dynamic of groups. The question that led me here was “How in the hell can people tell im feeling down if I give no outward expression of it?” and “Why even if I act aloof and distant, but I feel like im on top of the world inside do people seek my company?”
Thinking on these questions led me to believe that there is something about our mood that cues others in, even if our body language and manerisms say something different… Energy? Vibe? Can’t measure that.
Then I hit upon pheromones, and Ill be damned if it doesnt make sense. Our bodies could emit specific pheromones based on our mood that clues people in.
Looking forward to trying a few social experiments with this stuff.
you’re on the right track Although there definitely is something to those energy/vibe theories - you’ll notice that the way you feel inside still comes through, even when using some powerful pheromone mixes.
Other that observation - what do you want to use pheromones for? Give us some clues, so we can narrow things down and provide you with personalized and informed recommendations where to start. What’s your personality, background, goals, hopes, social strengths, difficulties?
Products like Instant Shine and/or Instant Openness are good for watching those little social changes around you. They both just scream approachability. Also, they work well with each other and with pretty much everything else - although I’ve noticed that IO somewhat takes away the ultimate alpha-ness a bit from the high-status products like A314. With moderation, that’s not an issue though and the effect is still well worth it.
My other suggestion is Ammo. It contains roughly equal quantities of the main pheromone types - androsterone (high status, alpha male, trustworthiness), androstenone (masculine sexual pheromone) and androstenols (approachability, communication, rapport). It’s a good allround product, great as a standalone and in combos with others.
Thanks for the welcome. A little background on me. I’m 27, i work as a chef at a members only country club. i have traveled quite a bit. my personality type is infj according to myersbrigg test. Some of my goals for using these products include, creating a more fun and laid back atmosphere at work, helping some if my shy socially awkward friends comr out of their shell and of course who doesn’t want to be more approachable to women lol.
all in all when it comes to conversation and body language i can handle myself well. but i run into the problem of people being unreceptive to conversation sometimes. like my friends won’t here it when i suggest a new hangout or bad attitudes at work that i can’t get through to that things aren’t so bad.
Glad to hear so much about you, that really helps! I would suggest that you try Instant Openness and Instant Shine. IO is great for conversation, it really opens people up and makes them want to talk to you. Instant Shine is a mood lifter, makes you a little happier and makes people around you feel like you are more enjoyable. You might also consider A314. That one gives you a little more status, and makes people take you more seriously.
Looking forward to hearing about your experiences!
Although there definitely is something to those energy/vibe theories - you’ll notice that the way you feel inside still comes through, even when using some powerful pheromone mixes.