A314 is very powerful but not at all obvious in its effects. I mean I had been using mones for a couple of years before and it took me months before I really developed any insight into how it worked. It’s a great product but maybe start with Ammunition, Instant Shine and (since you say you are a bit shy initially) Instant Openness. Turn Up the Heat is good for bars and clubs, and if you are in a relationship or around women a lot then Instant Female Magic is worth having.
Start with the first two though. (I would actually leave A314 till you have maybe 3-6mo experience with mones and are persuaded that they work).