weight
I will not lose weight until my body or stress in my life makes me lose weight.
Its my personality not necessarily my weight.
OK, just trying to help. 
What does this mean, exactly?
Are you waiting for your health to go in the tank before you’ll lose the weight? Or am I misunderstanding you? I have been overweight, it is a confidence killer. You can learn to live with it, but that’s hard. Harder than losing the weight. With a good support group or person you can make a lot of headway that is very difficult to do alone.
It’s worth the hard work that it takes.
You’re worth it.
Its hard for me to lose weight, if I lose weight I get cranky, though I doubt Ill become George “The Lady Killer” Solini because of my fear of God I dont need to be cranky in the willpower to lose the weight.
I believe America is entering the age of the “Lose Weight Nazis.”
Lose weight you will feel better, if you don"t lose weight we will tax you.
Lose weight or we will put you camps to work it off.
In time we will have a Final Solution on Obesity.
Hi Coleman
Welcome to Pherotalk
First a bit on mones. Pheromones are signalers. They do not create attraction in themselves. There has to be some amount of attraction to begin with for mones to make people act on the emotions they evoke.
Sure there are ladies who are attracted to larger men and mones can help you present your personality more. They can give you that opening so you can let your personality shine. Its a combination of the mones and you that will dictate your success with mones.
If you apply them then sit in the corner and wait for the world to change or for people to come to you then its much harder to see any success with them. Pheromones make your personal effort more productive but they are not effortless.
I coach a lot of people on mones use and this is a common problem that arises. They tell me “its not working” and then when I ask them how they used them they will tell me things like. “Well I sprayed on IO when I went out to dinner and no one talked to me” I ask them did you make eye contact with people ? Did you smile ? Did you use body language to signal a open comfortable stance ? Most times they didn’t. If your sitting in a closed off stance and not looking open to conversation your sending mixed signals. The pheromonal signal is saying “hey there is a interesting friendly person to talk to” While the visual is saying “stay away from me” The visual will always win.
This is generally when I hear “well I bought mones so people would approach me more not so I would have to approach more” Yes mones can increase approaches but you have to make a effort to look approachable.
Same thing with the sexual mones. Yes they can arouse people but you have to make a effort to be arousing.
This leads me to what you mentioned about your weight. I am not going to tell you to lose weight. That has to come from your own will. Your quote above though concerned me.
You have the control to change both your personality and your weight. Your body and the stress in your life have little say in the matter. Its what comes from your mind that has the say unless you have a direct medical condition that makes you overweight or effects your personality. I suspect you dont.
As you have probably gathered by now from reading the forum I am not a Christian but this does not mean I do not believe in god. I have heard friends who are unsatisfied with themselves or their situations who are Christians say well “its gods will” or “He is not helping me so its his will my life be this way” When I hear people say these things I always get a clear visual in my head of them saying it right to god and god looking at them in disbelief.
He gave you free will. He did not give you his will. He gave you all the tools necessary to evoke change but its your will that will start that change. Its your will that will help you find success. If you choose not to use what he gave you then dont be surprised when the wait for change doesn’t come.
I know losing weight is not easy. I know it can make you cranky. Your aware of that crankiness and you control it. I work out everyday to maintain my weight and sure sometimes I get cranky when everyone is eating cake and I have to say no to it. Like I mentioned I am not of your religion but I know that god never promised using your free will would be easy but I will tell you this it does make life more satisfying when you use it to evoke positive change.
Now that being said, I am still not telling you to lose weight. If you are happy with the weight your at and comfortable and positive toward others that is great. Get out there and work those mones and have fun. But if you are unhappy with your weight and that unhappiness is coming through in your personality which is almost always the case then use the will you were given to evoke change.
Tisha
Thanks Trisha