I am 42 BA male who lives in Los Angeles. I am also a minister and virginal. Virginity Is useful for preaching purposes but when I mention it people look at me like I was painted blue. I suppose I am a virgin due to fear, selfishness and just the will of God not being able to go beyond the friendship area with women.
I had studied pheromones years ago but ran across some “It wont work you will lose your money.” Papers so I backed off from spending money on the risk. I restarted looking into Pheromones because I am slowly losing the ability to make female friends I attribute it to a rise of bitterness in my life and I need some way make people listen to me more and if I have sex so much the better. When I restarted my pheromone search I found this website with lots of information and people who seem helpful if I have questions, I believe more products should have this kind of website to sell their products. This site and only finding one negative pheromone site out of the twelve I have read makes me want to try pheromones.
I suppose I am looking to be noticed to initiate conversation like Instant Openness and Ammo.
My personality-I suppose I come across as smart and a great story teller. And when there needs to be something to be done by the group I am in I am like Moses, but I dislike selling myself. I am a leader once people know me and I am witty enough to hold my own against jerks; But I lack initiative and once in a while I can be obnoxious and jerky to people, whether I am angry or not. I have a standoff nature to married women and those I find unattractive, but if the initiate conversation I talk to them.
How do I react to new people: If they talk first or touch me I talk to them and make them an acquaintance or friend. I blow intimacy away by selfishness or bitterness or the intimacy fails by the will of God.
The reason I want to try pheromones is that there is a young woman I want to try to talk to in my sci fi writers group.
What I want from Pheromones: More people to notice me on the one on one level and to make new friends.
I can write on things that happen to me when I see results from pheromones.
I need to clarify the Will of God. When something goes very right or very wrong and I can’t account why things should happen the way it did I attribute it God others attribute it to Murphy’s Law or luck.
You certainly do have an interesting introduction. Most people don’t come on this site talking about the"Will of God" and most men are not brave enough to tell about the fact that they are virgin.
That is really incredible. I believe one should leave sex for marriage personally but coming from me you might wonder seeing am sort of a naughty girl at times.
God himself gave us a choose for a reason,whether you choose good or bad and your will is to follow His will he will turn it around for the better. It is never His will that we should be miserable.
My first recommendation to you is to take a deep breathe and relax. Being intimate means so many things and relationships be it friendships or romantic are what life is worth living for.
Instant shine will be my first recommendation to you. This will definitely soften your approach and have other being drawn to you because you send out a happy,youthful vibe.
Instant Honesty, is for a deeper level of communication. It will have others opening up to you in a way that they normally would not and hopefully you will do the same.
Ammunition, yes, this will let the women know you are interested without seeming like a jerk.
A314 is a great product for getting you more respect, it gives you an alpha male vibe. People will look up to you. But it can also cause distancing, using A314, you need to initiate talk, approach the girls first, or they will think you are not interested in them.
Do Pheromones work on obviously fat men…Who have the personality that is not conducive for getting women.
I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but there is such a thing as “any rational person” So do pheromones work for these people.
Now I am fat 310 pounds at five ft eight, people can be nice but any rational person can see that I am fat, though not huge.
I have not lost my personality to talk to people yet but would pheromones work for fat people.
Hey Coleman, the pheromones don’t work…YOU have to WORK the pheromones. I’d recommend you get Ammo and Instant Openness as your first two because those were the first two that started off with.
I’ve had great results from them, I work at a nail salon doing nails and I notice that every woman that comes in to get their nails done are staring me down like I’m a piece of meat with legs. That’s what Ammo did for me, not just at work but everywhere I go I started to notice that woman are staring at me with aggressive sexual intent.
As for Instant Openness, I one time had a client and we didn’t talk for like 5 minutes as I was doing her nails, then I asked her what she has plan for the weekend and from that point…it was like verbal diarrhea and she won’t stfu haha.
Well, that is encouraging. If you were still so frustrated with your pheros I can’t imagine that you’d be wanting to hoard them. So something good must be happening. Do share.
I got rid of the sheep quote because as a Christian I should take it as a sheep.
However on the internet I sometimes choose to relieve stress so at times I become a jerk but this site is an intellectual type of site so I try to be objective in the moderate failure I have with Pheromones.
I dislike being disrespected or talked about by people I find beneath me.
I’ll tell you as one fat guy to another (I’m 5’10", 275lbs, been overweight since puberty, didn’t lose my virginity until I was 31) that YES, fat guys can be attractive to women, pheromones or no pheromones.
However…
It’s about personality. When I am accepting, relaxed and friendly, and I unapologetically appreciate her femininity and beauty, women respond. When I am nervous, bitter or am just not present, they don’t. Women respond to masculinity, and being a leader, a guy who is unfazed by life’s challenges, who makes people around him better, is damn sexy to women. They’ll want him. Not just for sex, but for ever.
I have had to get lots of advice and help and practice, practice, practice to get better with people generally, not just women, and I’m a hell of a long way away from being where I want to be. I suggest you look into getting counselling or mentoring.
That’s my two cents, and I hope you will understand that I mean it with compassion and respect when I suggest you get help from someone. I’m in a similar situation myself. It is helping me.
Have you tried perhaps losing the weight? Working out is also a very good confident raiser, and really when you’re not happy and are filled with stress and let downs the pheromones are affected too. Reason why (from what I noticed,) is that you’re too busy being bummed to notice any pheromone effects at all. And even with mixes that I know give me hits I won’t get to see those hits when I’m too busy being down, and with all these stressors running through your mind. It’s when you’re able to be free from at least some worries and are actually having a good day that you get to see results. The pheromones need your help, just as much as you need their help.
So if possible I think losing some weight will help you raise your confidence, while also increasing the percentage of attractiveness. I know it’s hard losing weight, but it’ll be good for your health as well.
you made such a great introduction,