as my nick already says I’m a IT Consultant from Switzerland and in my mid-twenties. Just this average guy from next door.
As I’m a talkative person I get almost every person to the point I want them, but there is this big Problem for me about the entry. How can I start the conversation with some strangers or even get their attention?
And there is also this Ted Mosby part of me which looks for the “One” but is too shy to just say hello.
maybe I missed some important Information then you can ask me and the spelling errors you can keep
Thanks for the intro. So the main trouble is with ice-breaking right? You’re not shy because once the ice is broken, you are fine? Well things are not hopeless, swiss friend.
You have to get your hands on Instant Openness: This one will create chatiness, both on yourself and on others. Conversation will be shallow, but making contact will be super easy. You’ll be able to catch up naturally once the ice is broken.
Get also Instant Shine, this will boost your mood and other epople’s too. This will make you more approachable.
Finally, I would suggest Instant Gentleman. This will boost your self-confidence and will help rid of that ‘fear’ (not the right word) or ‘resistance’ to establish contact with people. It will also make you very solid, if a person happens to reject you or not want to talk to you. It helps amanging anger a lot too in every day life. People will see you as wiser and a technical reference.
If you feel you need more edge in estalibhing deeper conversation with people, get IH. This one wil help establish trsut and bonding.
Please tell us more about the reasons why you think yopu have a hard time breaking the ice.
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Hi Conjurator,
Absolutely right, as soon as the hello is spoken I’m fine and can manage a whole conversation even getting laid is not a big deal, if the ice is broken.
Thanks for the advice about the products. It correspond with my self-created list, except the Instant Gentleman. I prefer the Come Talk To Me, because most of the people see me already as a “big Brother” where they can rely on and get good advice’s.
The reasons why I have the inhibitions/scruples to break the Ice are not that I’m unconfined about myself more the opposite. I’m the main Character in my Life, so the sidekicks have to “proof” they are worth my attention.
I don’t know how good you know the Swiss mentality but we grow up in the way that you should not distract people around you. So that has an impact too, I think.
I can make an Ice breaking-move but then my counterpart has to give me some clear signals that they are interested in getting into a conversation.
I think summarized I’m just too picky and gentle.
thank you for your effort
CTTM2, for me, works like an hybrid of IO and IH and I also get IS-like mood boosting that seems to come out of nowhere. It’s a well-balanced product, nice choice .
I have been to Switzerland and yes I have noticed that what you are describing seems like a national behavior . Asking for directions to a passerby in Geneva was a weird experience. But that’s no big deal. Each country had its own weird traits, lol.
The gift certificate will be sent to you by a forum moderator in your email. It usually takes a day or two.
Please consider starting a journal in the men’s section. This way, we will be able to follow your progress and you’ll get real time advice from experienced users along the way.
Welcome to the site. I would take a look at the Mens Ultimate Kit as you would get everything to try and all the products in it to try except CTTM2. With the $25 GC the kit would be $125 and you might spend that anyway getting a few products. Also you might qualify for the weekly putative which is another$25-40 item you would get in your order to. So it is a good deal. I like to give options so I will list a few I think will help
Ammo This is for attraction. I know you didn’t list anything about it, but think this will help you out in if you are single or married this is a must have. Nice cologne scent and very balanced.
IO This is an ice breaker and will make the approach much easier which is what you are looking for. Now I would wear this one your neck so it helps you open up as well as others to you. Pheromones can have great self effects to which this one would work wonders for you if worn on the neck
CTTM2 This thing will get and keep people chatty which is what you want.
If I had to pick 3 for you these would be them. It is up to you and what your budget is to decide what is best because at the end of the day it is up to you to really decide.
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What’s up? I do hope that you’re doing good over there.
Anyway, I’m just dropping by to remind you that your GC 's still good. And if you are thinking of placing a new order, now’s a really good time to do it.
We have now a variety of pheromones in unscented concoction, aka Stealth. Perfect for places where scents are a big no-no. With Stealth pheromones, you can now use your favorite cologne/perfume as cover. Now, they’ll still smell your fave cologne while being hit non-stop by the pheromones in the background.
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