I am 45 years old and I am a male that lives in Iowa.
I am shy but when you start the conversation I can become less shy and it is easier for me to talk to you.
I have married for 22 years and really love my wife. I am looking to put some zest back in our relationship.
Things have gotten to the point of humdrum or boring and I would like it back to when we were first married.
When we were broke and still did not care were the next dollar was going to come from. Like now were we have to watch every penny because times are tuff. What I would like is to put the spark back in our relationship by turning a few heads of some younger girls and flirt with them to get a rise out of her. She puts up a defensive mode and starts coming on to me even more in front of them to let them know I am hers. Then we get home and that is when things start to happen. She can’t get my cloths off fast enough. She takes over and you guys all know what I am talking about. I have been using pheromones for maybe over 20 years. I would see an ad that says 2 sprays and get any girl you would like and have them do any thing you like. You know the ads. I was looking into another ad and I found this place here and started reading the board and I am glad I did not order from that other place. It looks like there is a lot of great advice here and I hope with a few combinations I can put the spark back in my wifes eye again.
I have been checking out alot of the posts already and would like to know what has worked for othe guys my age. I look forward to reading what all of you have to say and hope to learn alot from you. I also hope to help out others as I learn more.
Future is right. TUTH is a great choice for getting your women to want sex more.
But there are other pheromones that can be just as effective if you want other effects. Like A314 for example. It’ll make women want you. So when you go out with your wife and she sees other women eyeing you and she gets that vibe that your ultra sexy and refined, there will be no stopping her from having sex with you
Now I could suggest some more stuff, I’d like to know a little more about you so I can better fit you for other products.
Such as what your personality is like. I know you said you can start of conversations, but are you still shy? Confident maybe? Dominant? Passive?
Also, are you just looking to use pheromones for sex? Or are you maybe wanting to try it for other reasons like romance, work, social?
Finally, besides sex, what else do you wish to get out of your phero experience.
Well good luck and let us know if you have any questions.
We seem to have a lot of guys showing up here lately looking to do the same thing - improve their marriage. I am also in my mid-40s, married with a family.
The thing to remember - and I am sure you are aware of it - is at this point of your marriage your sex life is tied very much to the level of the relationship. So the big thing to work on first is going to be the communication and feelings of connection within the relationship. Then the other connections will occur.
I want you to read two threads in my signature block. The first thread will give you a good idea of what you can realistically expect using pheromones. Even with the perfect mix of pheros it will still be 90% you making all this happen. It will not be spray them on and sit back and watch the magic.
The second thread is the thread for married guys. It will give you a number of strategies you can use and the pheros you can use with them. Diamond is also married and will tell you that following the thread and a lot of effort worked for him.
If you have any questions please feel free to ask either here or in the mens forum. I am in and out all day long and will be happy to answer any questions as soon as I can. You can even send me a PM to let me know the post is there so I can home in on it. As I mentioned Diamond is a great sounding board and Tisha, Bella or Dianne can give you the female married quite a few years perspective.
I think the ones that I bought were fake. Lots of hype in there ad to get you to buy them and they didn’t really do anything. I looked for little changes and did not really beleave all of ther hype that was given to them. They smelled ok and the wife liked them. I guess that is the main thing.
With all of the reading I have been doing here The ones you have talked about are the ones I have been thinking about getting. By having you suggest them means I am on the right track to understanding them. I have trouble trying to describe myself to others. I like to have fun but I don’t like to be the center of attension like a movie star. I like it when other people come to me and start the conversation and then it is easier for me to talk to them. As I get to know a person I am less shy. As far as what I want to get out of the phero experience is try to get back the fn my wife had when we were younger and have some fun and not get so stressed out ove things. I think what I have read here I my find a combination that will make her feel more relaxed around me. I hope some of this information helps.
Thanks for the links. I read them and found them vary hepful. I am not one of those expecting the world to stop if I use them. I have learned over the years that you have to put forth an effort to make things happen and there is nothing that will be an instant fix. What I have read here there are some great products to help me as long as I put forth the effort. There is also lots of great help to get me there like you and all of the others that have replied to my post. One thing I need to do is print off some of the posts for first time user of this board so I know how to work things and one of the others that explains what the pheros do by themselfs. Thanks again everybody I know I will have lots of questions in the futrue and I know I will get lots of great answers back.
If you have been using mones for 20 years I am sure you have used your share of the fake ones as well as some that work. I think you will enjoy the mones here. Plus you get more help with learning to use them correctly.
Your request is slightly different, Your looking for products to increase attraction from others which fuels yoru wifes reaction to you.
I suggest when you go out you use AMMO to attract attention and prime her a bit.
Then later on when you get home use a shot of TUTH and some IH to increase intimacy and arousal.
