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Hi there, my name is Agustín, I’m from Argentina, 26 years old, single, I think I’m a good looking man, I don’t have any problems in meeting new people but I have a big problem, I’m extremely shy. So, when I’ve to take the relationship to the next level, I fell afraid of being rejected and in most cases I just continue being the nice guy and a “good friend”.

So after reading about pheromones and the effect they can cause, I think it would be a good way to help women to give me a clearer signal that she is interested in me not just like a friend.

I’m planning to buy some products, but I’m new in this and international shipping, that’s because I need your help to choice the right product, if there any.

Well, I don’t know if you understand what I’m trying to say but please take in account that English is not my mother language.

Thank you…

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Shyness eh? I was once shy to the extreme where I would refuse to talk to anyone. But after multiple attempts (and exercises where I gradually learned to be proactive) I’m getting better at it.

A product that can really boost this potential is IO. It may influence you for you may start wanting to talk about… anything really. It can also influence other people for they start to ask a lot of questions/comment on things/talk when you nearby. Granted, everyone won’t be able to do this when you spray on IO, for you may have to do some acting yourself.

Confidence is also a major factor when it comes to shyness. Most of the time, shy people WANT to talk to others, but for many reasons they cannot.

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Hola Amigo, don’t worry, your english is just fine.

Instant Openness is a good product for opening and getting people to feel good about talking to you. However It doesn’t sound like that’s where your problem is.
You want women to see you as a sexual man…at least that’s the impression I get.
Lot’s of reports have indicated that latin women tend to respond better to a pheromone signature that’s high in androstenone. I actually think you could do well with Instant Jerk. The product is designed to give the impression of a strong, healthy, fit and very sexual young stud. It’s very attention getting and I think in social situations like Bars and Clubs it would work great for you.
Do not wear it to work or anyplace like that!

Now the thing to remember is that women will not likely make the first move, and with a product like Instant Jerk they’ll be expecting you to do it. So don’t spray it on and expect them to jump on you. Just pay attention and if you start getting that feeling that the girl is attracted to you…act on it and escalate.

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Hola Agustín, bienvenido a la discusion de mones! Your english is fine!

For shyness which is also I would say a symptom of insecurity, not having confidence, you should try IO and IG and AMMO.

I get a confident feeling, spring in my step with IG. IO will just get you to loosen up in your conversations with others.

You could ALWAYS use INSTANT SHINE as a smile in a bottle for you and others. Once you have that feeling, you will relax and being in this state, shyness will not be as big of a problem for you.

So, IG + AMMO + IO would be a great combo to minimize your shyness and get you to speak freely with women as well as men. This could be used in a work environment as well!

Welcome again to the Pherotalk forum!

Si desea la comunicacion en español, puede ir al sitio abajo donde soy parte del grupo pequeño de hispanohablante de este foro!

PheroTalk Pheromone Research Forum - Hispanohablantes -Spanish speakers

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Hi there and welcome to the forum. I just sent out your GC so it should be in your email inbox right now burning a hole ready to be spent. Well hopefully you can wait a few minutes for me to get typeing and lay out some Steve O advice :smiley:

SO you have a fear of rejection! Let me ask you this, who doesn’t? Anyone who tells you they don’t is lying to you! Here’s the issue though and I’m not sure you see it or not, but out of the generosity of my heart and good nature I’m going to lay it all in the open for you. By your fear of rejection your actually doing whatever it takes so you fail so you can say it was my choice to fail and if its my choice to fail its not as bad as someone else rejecting me. Essentially you are your own worse enemy and by doing what you can to fail you save yourself the pain of someone else “seeing” you fail. It’s all about you and by doing so you come across as very selfish and quite frankly not a very nice person at all. You might think you’re being the nice guy, but really you are being manipulative and using the “nice guy attitude” to try and con your way into her pants!

That’s right I called you a lowly con-artist that’s selfish and manipulative :open_mouth:. Not a very nice situation to be in now is it? Well the good news is you came to the right place and the even better news is you’re in great company. I can’t tell you just how many of us have been exactly the same place you have been. I know I can say, I have. While I didn’t have anyone tell me what I was doing, you actually do. I had to learn it all by myself. You’re lucky you have me here to lay it upfront for you.

You probably see the Jerk the girls are always going with wondering what the heck, right? Well here’s the thing though, she already knows that even though he might seem jerky to you, he is upfront with what he wants. He has boundaries and he is willing to tell her no and walk away. Now a guy like you and what I used to be like on the other hand. You’ll try and be nice and do whatever she wants. You won’t stand up for whats right, and basically in her eyes you’re the jerk. I mean after all you are being deceptive and lying to her to get what you want. You and that other guy both ant the same thing, but he is legit. If you can’t say no to her, if you can’t stand up to her bratty attitude how are you going to protect her from some guy wanting to hurt her? Get it?

OK so now that you understand you must be legitimate with yourself and recognize the situation. Once you know what you are doing you can work to change it. Understanding how you are being selfish and why you are doing it is the first step of sharing the REAL YOU with others. You have so much in common with so many of us, we’ve pretty much ALL have been through it. So stop convincing your afraid of rejection and get over the internal lies. You’re not fooling anyone except yourself. I highly recommend reading some David DeAngelo first. His Double your Dating ebook is a must have and will explain a bit more in depth, but still very basic man/woman interactions.

Then move onto some Mystery Method.

Now I think you’re going to have a tough road ahead. I’m not going to lie to you and tell you its easy. It takes steadfast determination and only real men who want to get over this hump in the road make it. You could take the easy road and keep lying to yourself and if that’s the course you chose I would tell you a product like Pherlure would be best for you. Its a lie for liars and that is NOT who you are. Stop the pity, stop the self-doubts and get up my friend. Get up and make a stand. You can do this. I know because I already did it myself. Get on your feet and with the determination, the same driving force that brought you here scream at the top of your lungs right now. Yell out that you are going to make this change. You already took a big step in getting here. I know you can make this happen :smiley:

If you have the attitude and determination to make this happen you should get yourself some Ammo. That’s all you need but understand you need to put in the effort. You’re wearing the ULTIMATE I AM SEXY MAN RAWR mix! So be that man, want to get into her panties and be proud of it. There’s nothing wrong with it.

Don’t let yourself down

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First of all, thank you for your answer and your time. All of you are right in some aspect about me. So I want you to know that I know I have to work in my fears to minimize them and think that rejection won’t be the end of my life and just one answer of two posibilities (win/lose) :stuck_out_tongue:
I’m a self confident person, I think if I want something, I can get it. But I saw in Pheromones a useful tool to help me to decode the real intention of a girl. Then, I think I’ll try IO, AMMO and Instant Shine, because all of you recomended me at least one of them.
Than you again, when I’ll have them into my hands, I’ll tell you my experience. Bye…

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I forgot to thank the GC, so thank you!

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Para servirte!!! Bueno, todos fuimos nuevos en una ocasion, entonces hacemos lo posible para contribuir nuestras experiencias para el beneficio para el nuevo, tal como hicieron para nosotros.

Hope to hear about your experiences with mones!

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