I am new to all of this but wanting to try to spark our sex life up a lot we have drifted apart. age 42 wife age 40
Since she’s your wife, and this is about sex, your go-to choice would be TUTH. It had a strong sexual vibe with masculine presence, which women find attractive. It’ll basically give your wife the feeling she had toward you when you were younger and/or at the beginning of the relationship.
Other choices I recommend is MX297 (experience strictly from reading) and IH (personal experience). IH will create a sense of trust and closeness that may have faded out over time. And MX297 is a socially smooth, rock star-ish vibe that’s supposed to be a turn-on for her, if she’s into that type.
Another, somewhat sneaky, tactic I suppose you can try is buy IS/a (powerful female vibe) or IS/b (kittenish female vibe) for your wife, and tell her it’s a “new perfume for women that you found interesting”. (IS here stands for Instant Sexiness.) Chances are, she’ll like the scent and will want to try it. The trick is to make yourself feel the way you’re hoping to feel. Just decide which vibe turns you on more: IS/a or IS/b, and go with that.
Hi Brian,
Welcome to the forum.
Any chance you could tell us a little more about yourself? Where do you live? Are you interested in only bedroom products primarily?
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Pudleduk
Another good one you might be interested in is MX353. It smells great and has quite the potential to rev things up for you.
Unfortunately, some women don’t seem to respond as well, so it’s a little more hit-and-miss than with TUTH. On the flip side, though, if she does take to it, then you will indeed get your sparks…
Hello brianc!
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What do you mean exactly with the “drifting apart”?
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