I’m male, 23 years old, from NY. I’m here primarily because I’m looking for a way to better attract girls. I’ve been told that I’m fairly good looking/handsome, so I’m confident that is not much of an issue, yet I still seem to have trouble with girls. I’m fairly shy in nature, though I’m taking steps to be more outgoing. For example, I recently started going to dance bars/clubs, as opposed to just regular bars.
I would say that one of my biggest problems is probably self-confidence. The only girls I seem to attract are ones that I’m not at all physically attracted to, and my confidence in being able to attract the girls I’m looking for has only gone down. In addition, since I’m pretty shy, I have trouble approaching random girls unless I’m fairly drunk. I’m hoping pheromones will make the girls approach me.
I have been lurking on the forums for about a week, reading up on the different pheromones and their applications. I was thinking about testing out some “to go” size pheromones. Based on what I’ve been reading, I was looking to try some ammo, instant shine, and perhaps some instant openness, as my first foray into pheromones. To further identify myself, I’m more looking to develop some type of relationship, and not really the type to go for the “one night stand.” I’d love to hear what you guys think and if you have any suggestions for what else you think I should be trying. Thanks a lot and it’s nice to meet everyone!
Hello ComfortablyNumb,
Good to have you as a member here in Pherotalk
I see you have doing some reading here & have a keen interest in testing pheros as well, that’s great ![]()
Ok for your situation, my recommendation is AMMO(regular strength will suit you as i noticed your age there & also it is a good attraction phero here) + Instant Shine(for a boost in confidence thus breaking down the shyness that you have there) + Instant Openness(for a better, longer & smoother conversation)
So what have you selected in your choice are all suitable for your situation ![]()
And if you are in a relationship, i suggest TUTH & Instant Honesty as these two are great in making relationships much more intimate ![]()
See you ![]()
Great suggestions from Phatsounds there, add a little Instant Female Magic(can be like bees around honey if you get it right) and Instant Honesty (to deepen the conversation) and I’ll reckon you’ll be well on the way.
Have fun, we don’t bite (well, some of the ladies do
) Feel free to lurk and learn.
Hi ComfortablyNumb, welcome to the forum.
Pink Floyd fan?
I agree with the advice you’ve already been given by my forum buddies. The Ishine and Instant Openness will definitely help your shyness. As diamond suggests, Instant Honesty will open up deeper conversations, which is what you want for a long term relationship.
Make sure to read through the sticky threads in the Men’s section for additional tips.
Good luck here!
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk ![]()
I think your choices are great to start with.
AMMO is a masculine confident mix. Its mildly arousing, interesting and sexy. I think its my favorite of all the general male mones I have tested on guys. TUTH is great but more for sexual fun with a person your already comfortable with. When they guys test out AMMO it really peaks my interest. It sort of grabs you and you immediantly think “Yummm hunkoliscious man candy near”
IO is a great ice breaker, It can make girls approach more as long as you look approachable when you use it. Dont hide in a corner in the dark at the bar. Strut right on up to the bar and let them follow the vapor trail.
Ishine can boost your confidence as well, Its warm charismatic, upbeat, draws people to you. I cant say enough good things about it.
If you have questions just ask. Your GC is on its way ![]()
Tisha
Thanks for all the suggestions guys! I just ordered Ammo, IO, and IS to go. And thanks for that GC
. Do you guys have any suggestions for the best ways to test everything out? I’m under the impression that I’m supposed to first test everything individually. Should I be experimenting with the dosage first and then try and mix sprays of different pheromones? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
Start out testing each separately to understand what each does. Then, when you layer them you’ll know what product is causing what reaction.
Yup just follow what Robbie have said there
Try each one separately to know how it does for you then after you got a feel of each one of it then use all in a combo mix ![]()