Hey welcome tot he forums! For starters i would suggest you look at come talk to me, isntant openness and instant shine. Come talk to me does exactly what the name says. It makes people more prone to initiate conversation, i have used this pheromone with noticeable results. Instant openness helps the person open up to you easier and feel more comfortable around you and instant shine is a feel good pheromone. It makes everyone around you happy and glad to be there and who doesnt want that. When you get your gift card you should be able to pick all three of these up with a little extra money if you want to! Once you get your pheromones your going to want to check out the thread on how to find your sweet spot. And remember to have fun and experiment! If you have any other questions feel free to ask and heres the link on how to find your sweet spot How to find your sweet spot...