Hello,
Somewhat shy 53 year old woman here. Never married, no kids. Spent my life taking care of my elderly mother. She is gone now.
So here I am now, supposedly free, and without one idea about how to relate to men or attract one.
It would be an absolute high for me to actually experience something from pheromones. I may have made a mistake and bought some from ebay. Nothing so far. Though, I am not even sure how to use them.
Now that I am free I am realizing all the things I have missed in my life. I didn’t think it was so bad, but the longing grows stronger every day. I must have been shut down before.
If pheromones would help me attract at least a few men from which to choose, that would be…well, my dream.
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Hi and welcome to the forum!
In order to best advise you, as well as get you qualified for the $25 gift certificate, please tell us about your personality and how you relate to others. Are you shy? Are you outgoing?
Also, what kinds of things are you hoping to accomplish with pheromones? What kinds of effects do you hope to see?
Hi Donna, and welcome to the forum!
Keep your chin up, fate has determined you had to wait all this time to meet that perfect someone, and when you finally do, it will have been worth all the wait.
A lot of places are not very reputable when it comes to pheromones. Some of the things in play here at Androtics Direct really prove to you that they are the real deal. 200% money back guarantee, $25 Gift Certificate, able to get 2 ToGo! bottles with, and a dedication to what the customers want. I can say that all of us here are very happy with what AD offers us.
Have a look at the Women’s Pheromone Guide, located in my signature. It describes the different products here, and if you see anything that catches your eyes, or if you have any questions about anything, let us know, we are here to help.
Cheers,
-mco;
Hi Donna. We are glad you’re here. The one thing that joins us all together is that we’re looking for something to improve our life. Take a deep breath. You’ve got the rest of your life to figure it all out… it’s gonna be okay.
We’d like to know about you, so that we can make recommendations that will actually be fun and helpful for you. Are you shy or outgoing? Do you find it easy and comfortable to meet/approach new people? Do you have any specific targets when it comes to phero usage?
The social pheros are easy to use and really help with getting to know people. Instant Openness will encourage conversation, while Instant Honesty will help people open up and really share on a more intimate level. Instant Shine is a lovely, sparkly, fun and youthful vibe that makes people feel good.
Looking forward to hear more about you.
Oh, sorry.
I used to be pretty outgoing, but the past few years have turned me into Madame Shy. It’s like I just don’t know what to say! Then I feel incredibly stupid. And I am NOT stupid!
I guess you could say that life has crapped on my birthday cake so often that I have lost all my courage - or confidence.
I don’t know if this “other” stuff matters to you, but I want and need an extremely erotic man. Every man I have known has been a dismal disappointment. I watched “The Piano” last night and all that “just touching” was more arousing than a sex scene. Got one that only my kind of man will respond to?
I think the one that lifts spirits should be my very first one! Instant Openness? The idea of Instant Honesty is VERY appealing!
This is an active group! Thank you for all your very quick welcomes!
If this would really work for me, I’d probably fall over in a dead faint. Or not. 
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Hoo boy, replying to my own reply.
Thanks for the referrals to read. There is a lot to take in here.
Mostly what I have known (from the advertising) about pheromones is the sexual attractant portion. But if they can affect ME, that would be great.
I need a kick in the right direction.
But I won’t wear Shine to a funeral. That was funny.
The more I read the more I can’t wait to get started!
D
I think it will be the guys falling over in a dead faint over you
If you want lifted spirits, Instant Shine, hands down. I swear by it. Also will give you a confidence boost.
Instant Openness will turn you from shy to talkative. It’s a great Ice breaker. it also makes people more chatty (yourself included). In my usage, those awkward silences vanish. I always find something to talk about if the other person stops talking.
Instant Sexiness A- the guys will love the alpha female, sexy vibe you emit when wearing it.
Okay, here are my thoughts. You need a mood boost and some self confidence. Because inside of you there is a wonderfully intelligent, interesting, delightful woman who deserves to be known and loved for exactly who she is. You are worthy of that extremely erotic man you’re looking for, sweetie. 
Instant Shine is a lovely, fun, youthful phero that makes everyone around you feel good, including yourself. It soothes cranky children in my house, and helps to take the rough edges off of a bad mood, as well.
Instant Openness is a good one for light chatty conversation, sort of getting to know you and testing out the waters of a relationship.
Instant Honesty is excellent for really getting to know someone. It encourages honesty, extends a feeling of trust and well-being. It helps with the deeper, more intimate conversations that relationships are built on. It is not truth serum, however, even though those of us with dating daughters wish it was. 
Instant Sexiness comes in two formulas…A and B I/Sa is a very confident, almost dominant, sexy vibe that some compare to Angelina Jolie. I/Sb is a softer, playful, girly sexy vibe that some compare to Marilyn Monroe. A lot of women use both, depending on their mood or objective on any given day. I personally stick with I/Sa because it is so congruent with my personality.
In case you’re not familiar with the term congruence… it basically means matching your attitudes and behavior to the pheromone signature that you’re putting out there. For instance, if you’re wearing Instant Openness and refuse to converse with anyone, that is not congruent, it is confusing.
There are so many others out there…but these are good ones to start with. I wish you the best of luck, and can’t wait to hear about your experiences.
I’d better shut up or I will wear out my welcome.
I think the first thing I would like to achieve is an ability to “talk” to people. I really want to make new friends, and friends that are meaningful friends, not just acquaintances.
Lifting my own mood would help that as well, probably.
What say you?
D
Can more than one be worn at the same time? Too much? Will the smells fight each other?
What is the stick man in the avatar doing? Looks sort of like Michael Jackson moonwalking at one point.
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More than one phero can be worn at the same time. You can apply them to different parts of the body, or you can layer them, if you allow one to dry before applying the second.
However, before you start mixing and layering, please take the time to use them singularly. This will allow you to gauge what each one does, to find your ‘sweet spot’ (optimum dosage) and learn what type of reactions to watch for. After you have them pegged is the time to start playing around with combinations.
Most pheros come in neroli scent by default. Neroli is a musky floral scent that is derived from orange blossoms. I think its lovely and never cover it with perfume, however others can’t stand it at all. There are other scent options when you buy full-size bottles.
Haha he is doing the “Soulja Boy” dance. Soulja boy is a hip hop artist who’s most popular music video became iconic when he did that dance in the video. 
Welcome to Pherotalk Donna!
Well, if you take a look at our very interesting lounge section you will see that men are not as complicated as they appear.
You already got some great advice so I won’t take up much more of your time. Just take things one step a time and remember that men and women have some general qualities but everyone is different.
Treat every case differently but carefully but most of all have fun and don’t be too nice to men. THEY DON’T LIKE THAT
Your GC is on it’s way!