Yet another newbie here. Divorced mid 30s female in the upper Midwest. I’m looking for ways to up my ante and approachability. Some basic knowledge on theories of pheromone sensitivity in humans, and always willing to learn more. What’s a good starting point for someone on a budget that also doesn’t want to be too over the top?
Hi! Cool to see you here! 
Welcome dePlume, for specific advices we need more personal information about you. Please describe us your personality, your strengths and weakness and also something about your hobbies. It’s is also interesting to know how you find this place.
A approachability booster is IO. A fast icebreaker and small talk maker.
By the way you can get also a really nice gc, but please tell us something about, we don’t bite. 
Promise! 
Warmth wishes.
Welcome to the board dePlume, I hope we can help you out
You have made the best starting point by joining this board with a willingness to learn 
For approachability I’d definitely recommend the IO, will make others feel that its easier to talk to you and your more open to listening.
If you provide us with a bit more info about yourself and your hobbies, places you intend to use your pheromones and your goals for using them you can qualify for the gift certificate which will help you out if your on a budget
Hope the board helps you out dePlume
Virium
Hi there! Welcome!
Well, a good start would be to first start reading the stickies, can be found here;
Intro to Mones
How to Qualify for GC
After you have qualified for a GC, at a minimal cost, you would be able to try out mones for yourself.
However in order to assist you further, we need to know what do you intend to use mones for?
For social purposes? For work? For business?
Because certain products are catered to certain needs, it’s important to establish what you need and require to help you further
Hope that helps!
Cheers!
Thanks! No rush on this end, payday is still a few days away
Guess I’ll add to my intro since I’ve looked around a little more. I first learned about pheromones from a book on moths as a kid, and later on from being a comic book geek. I know from both empirical and scientific evidence that scent in general can have a strong effect on people and animals, and I’d heard about pheromone perfumes years ago but none of them struck me as trustworthy. I’m writing a sci-fi story now, and kicking around the idea of having one species of characters use pheromones. Over and above trying to reduce my social awkwardness some in-person experience would be valuable research for my writing as well.
I do get a sadistic kick from making guys a little crazy, but nothing that would cause a dangerous situation. So I guess you’d say I’m looking for something that attracts men strongly without repelling women.
My post was eaten by the ether. Trying this again.
I’m average looks, higher intelligence, lacking in people skills. I tend to be seen as aloof, aggressive, sometimes arrogant. Mostly I don’t deal with other humans well, never quite learned how. My daughter is very similar (we both have Asperger’s) and she can be difficult to say the least. Something that can help calm people around me would also be useful.
For hobbies, I read, write, watch movies and NASCAR. Mostly I spend my time just trying to get by from day to day. I work with the public (I know that makes no sense with my lacking people skills, but there it is).
There’s nothing sadistic about being desired its in our genes!
For your social issues I stand by IO, its effects are quite easy to spot especially if your not the most social person day to day, not only will people talk to you more easily, but it has the same effect on yourself.
Instant Sexiness B, you want to drive some guys crazy? try it out, look around the women’s board/journals to see their experiences it should be just what your looking for . IH may be of value to you here as well, think of it like IO but a little more deep, if your interested in that.
Good luck with your story too! I’m a big Sci-fi/Fantasy fan myself
Virium
Thank you Cent! I was looking at those three, have to admit IH scares me a bit because I already have a bad tendency to blurt out my opinion! Kind of afraid that someone else will blurt out their opinion of me and that it won’t be nice.
I’ve kind of been poking around in the women’s area a few days to get some ideas on the products and their competitors, but this is my first real look at personal interactions here.
I saw it has an effective time listed, but haven’t located an area of effectiveness. Also is it something that hits fast, or would I have to engage them in conversation before the full effect hits?
I’ve improved on being social to some degree, but I tend to run out of “programmed responses” and small talk isn’t my strength.
Lol, I personally have only had a few IH incidents that I cringed about afterward, but for all the moments it comes in handy, we don’t mind letting one interaction slip away haha, hey if they didn’t like what was on your mind they weren’t right for you anyway eh?
All pheromones have a slightly different area of effectiveness and slightly different instant effectiveness’s (didn’t realise that word existed ). It can depend on temperature and humidity, the hotter it is the faster the mones will diffuse into the air around you.
From experience, when you get within a few meters of someone they will be perceiving your mones, the longer your in that area, the stronger the effect it will have because not only have their receptors picked up more mones causing more biochemical mechanisms but it also allows them to confirm that you are the person giving off these feelings. generally its a quick process though
I would like you to post a question on the womens board though, there far more qualified to answering you, they have the experience with the female mixes that I have only read about. For instance Instant sexiness A is more of an alpha female vibe, making you feel more confident and in control. this could benefit your social game if you felt adventurous enough to try to be that person. But I would really recommend asking the girls over on their board for their advice, they’ll all love to help you out
I’m reading over there and trying to make sure any question I have hasn’t already been answered in the stickies.
I will say that based on personal experience I don’t think I need to use anything with copulins in it when I’m ovulating, lol.
I’d love to try IS/A, but it’s not available, so I decided to opt for IS/B and IH. I’m hoping the TAH in IS/B will be calming to my kid while less calming to certain males I know.
I opted for the IH over the IO for the simple reason that most of the people I sorta chat with are regulars that I see most days of the week, so while I’m not great at small talk they’re mostly a chatty lot to begin with.
Wish me luck, will post my experiments in the ladies section after I get them.
Welcome to pherotalk deplume!
You already placed your order but think about it, if you seem like that arrogant unapproachable lady then is/b is better to give of a softer, more approachable vibe.
I am glad you are here, another lady and it would be nice when you start testing to share your experiences with the rest of the ladies.
Your gc was issued!
Thanks Mickaelia! Yes, I got it, used it, and it came in today, VERY fast service and a nice little extra was tossed in - IO 2x. Did my “phero baptism” as soon as I opened the package, lol. Smells spicy on me, like a perfume I loved that was discontinued years ago. I’d buy it for how it smells alone.
I’ll be better able to reliably start testing them tomorrow, haven’t been around too many people since it arrived, though the cat is acting friendlier (a nice change, he can get fairly mean).
ETA: I agree about the IS/B. I’m fairly liberal and forward, and I moved to an area that is far more reserved and conservative.