Hello from a newbie

Hi I’m SilverFox. I’m a 34 year old female from NE Ohio. I was doing some internet research work when I stumble across this forum and I am so glad I did. I been having a difficult time with a break up. The ex and I still communicate because we have a 5 month old son. The relationship ended because of other people causing us to distrust one another. He has lied to me about alot of silly things. I still love him and I know he still loves me. I’m willing to let the past go and start things over with him but he is reluctant. He’s afraid the drama that happened before might come again. I hope to restart a spark with him and make him more open to me about all his fears and open to the possibility of reconciling. I think these pheromones will help. We are dating again and things seem to be going well. We are mostly friendly. We haven’t been intimate in a very long time and I’d like to bring the intimacy back as well. I’m not feeling as attractive because of the effects the new baby has had on me but I’m working on it.

So far I bought Instant Openess 1x, Instant Shine 2x, and Instant Honesty 1x. and I also received MX450 free. We have a date coming up in three weeks. I’m not sure where to start with these mones. Can I mix these all together at once and if so how much? I have my own signature vanilla scent perfume he likes…can i mix mones with it? And lastly…what exactly does MX450 do? I look forward to getting to know others and will love to post my results from these products. Do I still get the $25 certificate even though I placed my first order already? I wasn’t aware I could get a certificate until after I placed an order. Thanks in advance for all your responses.

Hi Silver Fox - Welcome to Pherotalk. :slight_smile:

Yes, there are pheros here that can help you regain ground with your ex and you have a good range to begin with.

The ladies here will be along soon with better suggestions than I can give on the attraction front but FTM, I would suggest you concentrate on the Instant Shine and IH.

IH - Promotes closeness, bonding and trust - which is good as you are still communicating with your ex. IH will certainly encourage the right atmosphere for the kind of communication you need to get closer again.

IS - is a happy/feelgood, confident and inspiring vibe that will help steer the IH into happier territory. It may also have good self effects on you initially but these do tend to reduce as you get used to it - Initially this might help you feel better in yourself though.

You can mix them all together but it is maybe better to build-up your new phero signature around him one or two at a time to begin with. IO is good for promoting flowing conversation and is light and bubbly, so may be a bit much for an already strained situation but you know him and it may be that something like this will stimulate his personality better.

Rather than mix them, the best way to combine pheros is to layer them on your skin. Just spray and give a couple of minutes for each layer to settle. You can then spray your cover scent over that.

All the Instants are in Neroli (orange blossom) scent at 6%, which will settle to a very light level after about 30 mins or so and will sit well with a great deal of good perfumes.

The MX450 is almost certainly one of the Stealth Diffusion tests and most of them are TAA-based, so similar to Instant Shine but with far less scent. Check the MX Tests sub forum in Mens for a specific reporting thread.

Oh, I forgot to say that Mickaelia is round every day or two to issue the GCs personally and your having ordered already won’t be a problem - You can just use it on the next one. Watch your inbox and she will post on this thread once it is issued. :slight_smile:

Thank you so much mobocaster:slight_smile:

Hi there, silverfox! Mobo really took care of you. I do enjoy his personalized post on how to apply mones to YOUR situation.

I do like IShine and IH to get you going. Though, as you mention you have a few weeks until that day, you should test them out to see what effects these mones have on YOU. IH could get you a bit too honest to the point of being brutal. So, keep in mind that these will have an affect on you as well as those around you.

Also, you want to comfort not only with the IShine chemical signal, but, with your words and actions as well. Not trying to be judgemental, but interested in his feelings while honestly sharing your own.

I did the same thing… I ordered my IShine the first time then I found out about the forum. So, good times, even so, because I applied my GC on my next order… :slight_smile:

Yup - This is exactly why I suggested you combine the IH with IS, in order to help steer the mood/IH effects to the good/happier side of things.

And yes, use the time till you see him to do a few tests to see the results on yourself/others so you have a better idea of the properties and how to handle them before you unleash it on him.

Welcome to pherotalk Foxylady!

Yes, you most certainly do get your $25 gc to enjoy and get more stuffffffff! lol

I totally understand what you are saying about not feeling sexy , as a single mom you get into that mood and even since the baby is young , loosing sleep and just feeling like ugh!

I suggest you take some time when the baby is sleeping or napping cuz some like my daughter never really sleep but take kitty naps and give yourself a nice bath, shave up everywhere and put on some perfume with the pheromones just to feel good.

You can even do a nice style in your hair and wear something that make you feel snug even if you are at home just to get back into feeling like you and feeling nice.

Although am hoping that things work out with you two concentrate on your baby and feeling good about you and that vibe will bounce off him and the intimacy will soon follow.

Your gc was issued!

Hello. While I know this post may be a bit late, and I haven’t seen any recent posts on this thread, I thought I should chime in with my two cents just in case.

The MX450, as best I can tell, makes a woman want to be a better partner; they simply begin to find ways to bring happiness to the person they’re with, from initiating housework and cooking more often, to taking a renewed interest in foreplay. The only “negative” side effect I’ve found, is that the woman so effected also begins to unconsciously place themselves between their partner and any potential threats to the pair bond, such as an attractive female. Nothing hostile, mind you, but definitely a noticeable increase in proactive territorial defensiveness.