Hello
I’m a new user from England. I just posted about my complicated work life in the women’s discussion board and am looking to find pheromones that will give me an edge at work. Looking for insight from both the guy and gal users. The effects I’m after - first and foremost I want to win my boss over. And I’m willing to do a little flirting to get there.
Thanks
Hi Fleur, welcome to the forum!
To get started, would you mind sharing a bit about your personality and communication skills? Also, how do you prefer men to perceive you? Soft and sexy, or more alpha sexy?
Also, can you give a bit more detail about the kinds of situations you are considering using pheros for, and the kinds of specific effects you hope to see?
This info will help us recomment the best pheros for you, and also help you qualify for the $25 GC.
Hi all
I recently stumbled across this site and I am really pretty excited to try out these products for myself. So I’m just about to make my first order and I’m interested to hear what other users think of my selections and also what recommendations they have.
A bit about me. I’m a 30 year old woman. I’m currently dating but unattached and live in england.
I’m looking for products which will be beneficial in these scenarios which revolve primarily around my workplace. Apologies in advance for the long - windedness!
I’ve been on a break from work for several months following an accident - not too serious thankfully. Now that I’m due to return I have to rebuild the organization’s confidence in me. I particularly want to win the confidence of my male CEO. Prior to my haitus I had expressed that I wasn’t happy in the job and that I may start looking for alternatives. While long-term this is still the goal I can’t leave immediately due to my financial situation. Because my dissatisfaction is widely known I need to put myself in a place where my behaviour dispells all question marks about my commitment. As long as I remain in the position I want to be as upbeat, enthusiastic and involved as possible, which is not the easiest thing for me to do. I need a pheromone that will help lift my mood, energy levels and positivity so that I don’t fall into the dreaded dumps. I want feel-good vibes to emanate and lift those around me. I really do not know what will work here - would Instant Shine do it? If it helps my personality is generally pretty exhuberant, bubbly, almost childlike when I’m in a good place but underlying that I’m pretty cynical. Right now my cynicism is winning.
My CEO is probably going to be key to my comfort for the remainder of my time in this job. There are a handful of women within the organization that he seems to gravitate towards. It may be a co-incidence that they are the best looking women in the company! He is quite reserved but I’ve observed him and he’s definitely flirting with each of these women. I won’t go so far to say that they receive special treatment but he trusts them and through him they get access to valuable information and can exert influence if they want. It’s fair to say that what’s going on in his head is the most valuable commodity in the organization and he’s generally not the greatest communicator in a company-wide sense. It really pays to be in his one-to-one club and I really want to get in there. If I can nail the positivity enthusiasm aspect that will be one side of the equation.The other is ramping up my sex appeal. I want to down play girly and sweet and I don’t want to be ditzy and tongue-tied. So I will probably avoid INSTANT SEXINESS B and go for INSTANT SEXINESS . My goal is not to seduce him but simply entice him to such an extent that he will want to keep coming to my desk for chats or find reasons to include me in meetings that might not directly involve me. I guess the goal is to become his right hand woman and ‘have his ear’. If I get there then I think he would be willing to work through some of the issues I have and then maybe I wouldn’t have to leave the job after all. Is there anything besides IS that could help me? In terms of my starting point I think he is perhaps mildly attracted to me at this point but not at ease with me. I guess I will have to build my rapport with him and try to eliminate any feelings of disappointment with me. I realize there’s no guarantee that attempting to target this one man is going to be successful but if I’m going to try to get back into his good books anyway, I might as well get some help with it.
My job is in the creative sector so I’m around ideas people all the time and constantly in meetings with new and existing clients having ideas pitched at me. Sometimes I clam up because I’m not always as relaxed as I should be in those meetings and as a result I don’t always steer the conversations as well as I should. Conversations can end up being pretty dry which isn’t satisfying for anyone involved. I’m looking for a product that will help me by taking away that feeling of pressure to say something and generally help me be more receptive and responsive. I think rapport building is also needed because at heart I’m shy and can feel intimidated. I thought perhaps Instant Openness might work or Instant Shine? What about M138? And is Instant Honesty a no go for the workplace?
My final question is what can I use to ensure that my subordinates will respect me when I return to work. They were very compliant prior to my break but I suspect that having got used to not having a direct manger for 4 months, they’re not going to fall back into line without some resistance.
Ok guys I think you can tell I need help! I hope you will all have some feedback for me.
Thanks!
Thanks for the great info, Fleur!
And I know just the products that will help your situation.
As I see you already know, Instant Sexiness/a should be on your list, for the strong alpha sexy that you want the CEO to see.
For trust and respect, definitely go with MX300 (its kind of a women’s version of A314).
To get other more comfortable with you and opening up with you more, Instant Honesty works extremely well.
Instant Openness is a great product, but its more of an ice breaker, it makes people more superficially chatty.
Instant Shine is one that is one of my personal faves. It is very uplifting, and gives a positive slant to any situation.
Don’t try those MX’s (MX138, etc) until you have learned how to use the Instant products, which you need to do in a methodical manner. This post should help: How to find your sweet spot…
I hope this helps, and please ask if you have any more questions! 
Hey there Fleur, welcome to the forums! So you looking for that edge at work: mind if we ask what your personality like? :)As already memtioned this will help you to receive your $25 gift cert.
cheers,
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Welcome to the forum.
Thank you Silk Kitty. I think I will go for the Instant Products as you suggest to get me started, probably in the To Go size and then take it from there. I’ll come back in a month or so for MX300. Do you think it will be back in stock by then?
Cheers!
I hope so!!