Welcome to Pherotalk Nick!
There are certain products that will give that pull and of course the guys have been down that road so they know about these combos that tend to work.
Just a few things you need to remember :
A314 is not for everyone and if you are shy it will not work the way it suppose to and you might want to try Instant gentleman instead and work up to it.
Since you are just starting off ensure you know the mones individually pretty well before mixing.
In terms of advice the mones you should use are usually on point. However, the amount of sprays and where you should use them depends on you bcuz everyone is different.
Good luck.
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