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Hello out there!

Just to give a bit of a background, name’s Alex! You can call me cora if you’d like. Whichever four letters you’re up to typing I guess. Basically, I’m a 17 year girl old living in Toronto, Canada! Going into my last year of High School this year, where I am hoping to start applying for universities/colleges. I’m hoping to major in Music Theatre, as I’m a budding performer.

I just came across this whole pheromones idea and I find it really interesting and figure it can probably help me quite a bit. Basically, my story is this: I have quite a few friends that I am quite close with. This is probably because I am a very honest person, and people who have a lot of “fake” friends (quite common in my age range) are easily drawn to someone like me. I have a few guy friends for the same reason as well. However, it seems like this is all that is ever going to happen. My personality is quite a friendly and inviting one, and if I do say so myself, I have quite a good sense of humour. However, all guys I meet only see me as someone to be their “best friend,” and nothing more. Sometimes I’d just like someone to see me as something more, for once. There is a guy who I would really like to get things going with, however I really don’t know where to start, and I can sense that he really doesn’t either.
Also, when I first meet people, I can sometimes be a little reserved. I’m absolutely terrible at getting a conversation going unless I’m with someone I know very well. When I am in a large group, I am completely fine, and often times the loudest in the group! But when it gets to one on one situations, I just never know what to say, especially if I’m in that situation with someone who I have feelings for.
And lastly, lately, I’ve been going through some changes, that have really done a number on my self-confidence, mainly with my looks. I don’t really want to go into big details, as that is a whole other story, but I’m starting to get the feeling that people are noticing my new lack of self-esteem. It’s been a while since I’ve gone walking around feeling truely confident in myself. I really hate to be seen in this way, and I think everything this forum is about may help give me that boost back again.

So in short, I’m looking for something that will help boost my confidence, my social strength, and sex appeal. Obviously, at my age, I’m not looking for actual SEX, I’m smarter than that. Just something that will help get me seen less as the “funny best friend,” if you catch my drift. Also, another key factor of mine is budget. I have little to no money to spend on these products, so this gift card idea is very appealing to me. :stuck_out_tongue:

If anyone would be so kind as to help get me aquainted into this world of pheromones, and maybe reccomend some products, I’d really appreciate it!

Thanks, and hope to talk to you all soon!
-A

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HI Alex

Welcome to the forum!

Don’t worry, phero’s aren’t all about getting sex, there are many that are social phero’s, and many times they actually work better :slight_smile: I do use the sexy ones, but then I also use phero’s for work, socializing and for self effects.

If you are a little reserved I’d suggest you have a look at Instant Shine and Instant Openness. IS can help you with confidence in that it give you a mood boost, and makes everyone around you happy as well. IO is great for helping conversation along. It increases the chattiness in people, including yourself :slight_smile:

There are two mixes for women that are social but with a flirty flair to them. Mx135 is great…it makes you the centre of attention. It’s like instant miss popularity, makes people want to be around you.
Mx274 is also great… It’s a social, but less bubbly than Mx135. It’s great for making everyone harmonious and in a sociable mood :slight_smile:

Oh…and have a read of the stickies in the womens section if you haven’t already. Lots of great info there!

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Hi cora,

Welcome to the forum.

To get the conversations going with new friends, IO will help. It can make you more approachable. People will open up and like to talk to you.

Shine will boost your confident socially. It uplift your mood and the mood of the people around you too.

Instant Sexiness will make you more attractive and sexy. Men will be attracted to you. IS A is for tough and dominant vibe while IS B is for soft and feminine vibe.

Good luck to you

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I will definitely check those out, thanks bunches!

And yeah, I was certain that sex wasn’t the only thing that they were used for, just wanted to clarify! :stuck_out_tongue:

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There’s a good book on the subject called The fine art of flirting. I read it years ago. Good one for women, and G-rated so I think it’d be fine for a woman of your age. It’ll help you put a little zing in your interactions with guys and keep you out of his “friend zone” without going too far and making him think that you want to take things further than you actually want to take them.

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Well hello there Alex and welcome to a very happy and fun community of like minded people. I’m sure you will fit in here just fine :slight_smile:.

I agree with Xiphoid and her awesome suggestions. I couldn’t really suggest anything different than what she’s already said. I will add in though, that MX’s are experimental, but the mixes for the ladies are tried and true at this point. Androtics just haven’t made them into consumer based products yet. So keep in mind that MX’s pretty much come in 5 ml To Go bottles which will give you about 40 sprays. It’s a great way of sampling products without going over your budget.

Again I welcome you to the forum and I just had your GC sent out to your email :slight_smile: