Maybe you should slow down on the jokes when you get around some of them that you want to date. Dont stop completely just make smart funny comments that will get them giggling and just smile and move on. Try and start up some really serious convos too if you can. IH and IO will help in that department. Make conversations alot more interesting and intense. Sounds like you do have a good personality, just stay true to yourself and sooner or later you’ll gett’em. But yeah try the IO and IH sounds like you already have them wanting you they just have to know that you can be serious too. Well anyways good luck and i hope it works out for ya dude. Got a thread on some stuff you can do to help too if you want to look in there. /shrug good luck and peace Stuff to help your journey in mones